My boyfriend got a handjob from another girl?

[Anonymous]

He seems very sorry about it and is begging for my forgiveness. We've been dating for almost a year. IF you were me, would you break up with him?

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah, he messed up big time, if he loves you why did he pull
that on you he isn't playing fair.. You could forgive him but what
says he won't go out and try that with some other girl it's sad to
think that he did that out of lust and not love unless he has no
feelings for you or any other girl out there.. It will take lot to forgive
him that's for sure cause that will lay in your mind what he may
do in the future if you two did decide to get back together again
least that's the way i see things,

[DaveyBaby107]

He's not sorry. Just sorry you found out. After a year he shouldn't even be close to that

[Asker]

What do you mean not even be close to that?

[DaveyBaby107]

Exactly what it says. You've been together almost a year. There's no accidental handjob after a year. Which means he purposely cheated on you and disrespected you. If he truly cared about you he'd never even be close to a situation like that. Instead he did it willingly.

[ghostgirl97]

If I were you'd I'd kiss that douche bag goodbye, why would you want to be with a guy who thinks it's okay to do something like that? What ever happened to loyalty? He's likely not sorry for what he did, he's probably sorry he got caught. Don't waste your time with a guy who would so easily toss you aside for a little hand job. You deserve way better than that!

[Stacyzee]

Amputate her hands !!!

Jk.

I cannot make that decision for you.
Do you believe me won't ever do it again?
Whatever choice you make , distance yourself and take space/time to think.
Don't make a rushed decision.

[Red_Arrow]

Amputate his dick.

[GirlsLie]

I would break up with him, I wouldn't be with someone who I couldn't trust and I wouldn't trust someone after that. If he wanted a hand job from another girl really bad, he could just tell me and i'll help lol

[Onyx277]

I would dump him, especially if it was just a boyfriend and not a husband. He may only be saying sorry because he was caught.

[Red_Arrow]

"Sorry" is short for "Sorry I got caught!"

[HeatherJoanGaG]

Fuck him! Move on.

[Octavion]

Unless she forced herself on him and roofied him no it's not excusable.

[Asker]

No he wasn't even drunk or high I don't think.

[mr90skid]

If I were you I'd break up with him and be getting fingered by some random guy right now with the cheating ex on the phone hearing everything.. but that's just me though and I don't recommend doing all or any of that.
I'd just leave him basically

[LaBellaNena408]

I wouldn't break up with him if he's on his knees begging! I would want him to explain how this happened and I want him to bring me that bitch that gave him a hj so I can pop her him her fucken face

[KDA20]

Dump him that is cheating

[Grace_Rdz]

"Once a cheater, always a cheater."

[xCutesyLolitax]

Hell yeah I would.
This should be common sense. You deserve way better

[tyber1]

He cheated on you, it's as simple as can be.

And I mean he valued the relationship so little that he cheated for a handjob, which is like the Yamcha of sex.

Dump him.

[Asker]

Yamcha?

[foreverxinsanity]

You deserve a fucking medal for that reference.

[tyber1]

To be Yamcha is to be a disappointment

https://www.tubechop.com/watch/6020361
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ieV_b7GQNVg

[Asker]

What does disappointment have to do with this?

[tyber1]

Handjobs are the most disappointing form of sex, any guy can give himself a handjob. When people think about doing something they know they aren't supposed to do they on some level take into account the risk/reward ratio, the higher the risk and lower the reward the less he values what he risked. The low reward coming from it shows that he didn't really place that much value on the relationship when he cheated. Because the end reward is not very tempting, it's hard to believe that he just got lost in the moment and I'd have a hard time believing that he is sorry. He was likely fully aware of the risks but didn't care.

[emerald77]

I would break up with him!

[front2back]

You should give him a hand in ending the relationship.

[Consultant]

you better break up with him lol

[Chick180]

Fuck that. Goodbye.

[douride2]

Get him out of your life. You deserve better.

[Shaft50]

Yeah, get rid of him. Even if it was just her idea, he could've stopped it. Got up and walked away. Removed her hand. Told her, 'stop! I don't like it.'

Just a question: If you continued your relationship with him, how strong would your trust in him be? What would be your reasoning to take him back? (It was an accident/He was drunk at the time/etc)

[xxbebosxx]

Break it up with him

[KidanisCortes]

ohh yes I would if my girlfriend got fingered by some other dude I'd be out that second

[grahamcracka]

Well at least she wasn't naked, or they went further. I'd say there's a chance and you make him your slave

[jakeofalltrades]

if it was his idea than yes, but if it was hers no

[Asker]

It was both.

[jakeofalltrades]

what do you mean

[Asker]

They both agreed to do it.

[jakeofalltrades]

so he asked for it and she said yes? if that's the case you should leave. but if she started and he just went along with it then you shouldn't

[Ashllleey]

My advice is that cheating is intolerable.

[valerieselene]

In my opinion this is normal. Guys have needs especially sexual needs, so maybe you weren’t making him feel good so he just got another girl to get the job done. Boys and men have needs so if your man needed to cum but your hand or your pussy didn’t feel good enough, sorry to say it but he just needed that release, so he found a girl would could satisfy his dick. I’ll be honest with you, I fuck my boyfriend really good but sometimes he just needs that release so he’ll get a quick handjob or blowjob from his coworkers which I’m completely ok with. It’s all about trust. Sometimes work stresses him out and he needs some pleasure. My boyfriend opens and closes, he has 10 hour shifts, I can’t blame him for needing an orgasm. And he has some pretty hot coworkers so who better to do the job? I’m extremely grateful for the women who jerk my boyfriend off when he needs it. I especially grateful for the women who suck his dick and let him nut in their mouths. Overall get over it. It’s normal. Let girls make your man cum regularly. Make it a habit. He’ll be happy I promise.

[Anonymous]

It's just a handy.

[Anonymous]

Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I would not give him another chance if I were you.

[Anonymous]

Mistakes make us humans and we do them without thinking on how they can harm the peoples we love the most. If he is really sorry about it he deserves a second chance since been truly sorry about something means not repeating the same mistake. However who am I to preach moral values when I cheated on my girlfriend twice. The first time I told her about it and she forgive me, almost a year later I cheated on her again and I never did told her. In both times we had strong discussions and we almost broke up. Now I respect much more the relationship and since I recognize something was wrong with me I stop thinking on cheating as a way to calm my frustrations during discussions.

[Anonymous]

Do you really have to ask this question?

The answer should be very clear. Forgive a cheater and get repeatedly cheated on.