My boyfriend had a dry orgasm?

[Anonymous]

Can anyone explain why this happened? I give my boyfriend hand jobs in the shower but he usually stops me before he cums, he says its too intense (we're both virgins) but outside the shower is fine This time he let me take him all the way (the first time in 2 years :-) . Only there was no ejaculation. We were both surprised. He had never felt anything like that and it really weirded him out, maybe even scared him a little. Granted, I went a lot faster than I normally do, could this have something to do with it? Any comments are welcome. Does this happen to anyone else? Thanks!

[neha44]

Your Boyfriend probably experienced a true “male orgasm” that has nothing to do with ejaculation. It’s the minority of men that experience this. Did he feel the “ecstasy” in his entire body, or only in the genital area? It was probably the first.

[Asker]

Huh. I don't know. We were both too weirded out to comment at the moment. He did say that it was very intense. Something so unique that he couldn't really explain it, he hadn't experienced that before.

[Anonymous]

Ok I'll tell you girls and guys a secret. I can have a dry orgasm but it's very hard to do on purpose. He doesn't need a doctor like that other guy says. LOL

[Asker]

If you don't mind me asking, is there anything different that you do when you have one?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I guess since I'm anonymous I can. I have done it before by spitting on my hand and rubbing it on the top of my my head really fast. It got so sensitive it felt like I couldn't take it but I forced myself to keep going and the feeling became like a really intense orgasm only a little bit different because nothing comes out and you still get soft when you stop because it's so sensitive you can't take it anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

The reason I say it's hard to do on purpose is because usually rubbing my head that way is too intense to take for more than a few seconds so I have to force myself past a period of discomfort to get to the good feeling. I'm sure many guys are different and your guy may have a different spot or way of making that happen.

[Asker]

I use soap in the shower so I can move a lot faster, using both hands to cover all my bases :-) . He has always said that it was different in the shower and much more intense than normal. Do dry orgasms feel better or the same to you? Sorry for the questions, I'm just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

What you describe doing to him could definitely cause a dry one for me. lol I think what we're calling a dry orgasm is more intense in a way because as I keep stating to cause it you have to rub the penis in a way that is normally so strong of a sensation you would want it to stop, except you don't lol. The after sensation can last a lot longer also. The normal orgasms with ejaculation I have 95% of the time leave me feeling more satisfied and relaxed in a way though. They're both good.

[Asker]

Thanks for the input!

[carlstatlin]

I find that odd. he might want to talk to a doctor.

[Asker]

Are you serious?

[carlstatlin]

yeah. I would or at least find a online medical diagnosis forum and ask doc on that but I take no chances when it comes to my junk. I would go to a doctor.