My boyfriend had sex with a prostitute, will he do it again ?

If he is capable of doing this can he change or does he just want the best of both worlds, and can he really love me.
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We have been togther for nearly 4 years, I found out he had sex with a prostitute because I found her and she admited it. He was also in contact with another prostitute but she wouldn't tell me anything I was incomplete shock and ended up taking him back
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Break up with him. He's not the last man on the earth, stop being so weak. You are showing this guy that you have 0 respect for yourself or your body if you take him back after sleeping with a prostitute. Remember, you only get 1 chance to get AIDS. It's nto worth it honey

    If someone cheats on you, and you find out about it, and you stay with them they will lose respect for you because they think "I can do whatever I want to this idiot and she'll still stay with me", then when they talk to their friends they laugh about it and talk about how dumb you are and how they have you wrapped around their finger. Is that how you want to be seen? He doesn't love you, so you need to love yourself and MOVE ON

  • I suppose it depends on how long you have been together and how mature he is. It also depends on how stable your relationship is and you really should ask him yourself. There are obviously reasons why he did this but if it is simply because he was young and silly and wanted to experience it then I guess that would be okay. Many men do go through this phase at a young age and then realize the grass isn't so green on the other side. I hope he doesn't do it again for the sake of your relationship with him :)

  • Then I guess you need to talk to him and figure out his true feelings for you. Ask him what he think it means to be in a loving committed relationship and find out why he felt the need to have sex with a prostitute.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not to play devil's advocate but are you pleasing him sexually? Could be playing a part if you aren't. I'm not saying what he did is okay, but I have to consider both sides and all possibilities.

    I would sit him down, talk to him, and find out what's going on. Get the truth, tell him how you feel, and that you won't tolerate it (assuming you're even going to give him a second chance.)

    I feel bad for you. No man should do that to his girlfriend/wife.

  • Can he change? Doubtful, not many people change their lifestyle. He clearly was doing this for sex, perhaps he felt he wanted more and the idea of getting caught is his turn on. I'd ditch him, it's not worth being with someone who like sex more than they like you.

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  • of course he'll do it again.. he knows he did it and you stayed so why not do it again cause you'll likely stll stay

  • Damn I hope putting you health at risk was worth it,i know you would like to believe that your boyfriend is clean but the prostitute might not be

  • Don't trust him.

    I wouldn't.

  • you took him back? really? where's your self respect?