My boyfriend has 9,5 inches and he's just too long what should I do?

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MrMysteryMan · Accepted Answer

Well, it's more on his side of things where the control has to come from really. He's got to understand the equipment he's working with and have some form of care for you in the process.

To me it sounds like he's loving how you can't take it if he's not even trying to make sure you're comfortable enough or wet enough or stretched enough to try and take it.

So for one, you both should start by getting a better attitude about this. First, start working together by going about the foreplay better (if you guys do any). Kissing your whole body, putting your mood in a more aroused and relaxed state, like really feeling sensual and almost overly horny is key. Because then you're at your wettest and your pussy is more relaxed and pliable (easier to stretch out). Next, he should gradual stretching stretch you out with his fingers and whatever toys you have. Like really get your pussy even more pliable and accommodating for a difference of sizing and more aroused in the process. Then YOU can sort of start to just play with his cock, get used to his size and feel, even tease your pussy with it, either on your clit or around your entrance or even play with looking at the size of it on your body, rubbing yourself over the entirety of it without penetration, get it all wet and your pussy worked up for "wanting" it. Then, you can start being more relaxed to the idea of having it inside you and it will go in a little easier. But just maybe work on the feeling of the head inside at first and get your pussy accustomed to the girth. Then, inch by inch your pussy will just start to melt around it. Make sure you guys kiss and neck still while doing this, or you can play with your clit and nipples and such to keep in that really aroused state and you will actually surprise yourself and take it, maybe not all at first, but it won't feel so "impossible".

Fuck girls give birth to monsters. As well, I've seen some seriously huge dildos that really small women can take, so it can be done.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Teach him how to use it he should be able to see in your eyes every feeling every emotion you are experiencing to make it the best for you you should be making it all about you if he does that you can make making love to you what are the best things you've ever felt before in your life but he has to make it all about you

kittycat119 · Accepted Answer

Foreplay. Women grow down there as well. So if you guys are doing it right you can achieve taking it all

Pamina · Accepted Answer

Do you know what this is?

AthleticMom · Accepted Answer

Put a large cock ring on it that says "No deeper than this"

TazWax · Accepted Answer

Shut the fuck up and learn to take every inch of that dick

futurebarbie · Accepted Answer

Learn how to take it or just break up

Freakles87 · Answer

Tell him to only put half of it in? 😂🙈

VegetaSSB · Answer

There is really nothing that can be done, or you adapt to his size or you will end giving up. But truly, he is way too big, i would want to be him with 2 inches less.

AceBowler · Answer

Ask him to not go so deep... that seems to be the most reasonable choice if you are having trouble with length

AlphaGhost · Answer

lol I would recommend keeping few ounces Oxytocin with you cuz its gona come handy.
Use the extra lubrication and try to keep him calm otherwise that pussy buster is gona... your pinky. I got 8.4 and my g. f have almost every type of problem with it cuz I like rough sex.

Kaazsz · Answer

Poor guy. 10” is way too much. I’m 8” and I feel it might be a little too long. But 10? Who can you fuck? Only size queens? I dunno, feels limiting to me.

I don’t know what you can do. Going balls deep feels good lol.

Repa33 · Answer

Try more foreplay. I mean, itll stretch

Mikeyboyb · Answer

Wow you got a big one !!! How long have you been having sex with him? You should use a little lotion and put it on the head of his penis and tell him to thrust easy into u until your nice wet for him and let him get off. As far as a blowjob jerk him off while you take 3-4 inches in your mouth. I am like 7.5 and I take it easy on the smaller women but love a got bj and hand job at same time feels so good

ToddyWoddy · Answer

Slow stretch is great. Get on top, tell him no thrusting. Make it a mission to get deeper, rest for a good minute in a deep position. You can always do this solo with a large dildo as well.

passinby · Answer

Train him. We are trainable. Slow and sensual.

Jjpayne · Answer

well, you can always have him get it surgically brought down to a proper size lol.  I guess just aim for it to not fully go in. If its not physically possible, its not physically possible

Viperkiss · Answer

Stick a donut on it to act as a spacer.

boggboss · Answer

Can't really do anything about it really

TadCurious · Answer

I think you should re-measure because I don't believe you.

airylnovatech · Answer

Don't take all of it. Compensate with something else.

Apope16 · Answer

Im 8 inches. I used to hurt my ex too. Id say use extra lube and tell him to thrust slow but deep.

A woman's vagina can knock a baby out. Whatever foreplay you are getting.. double it. Make sure you are begging for him to be in you. The more the arousal the more the expansion.

Ripper_E · Answer

Have you tried talking to him?

Lezly93 · Answer

Prove it. Let's see that rod you are having trouble taking

jacquesvol · Answer

wrap your hand around the base of his penis when he's in you.

Fukaroo · Answer

Chop off 8 of the penises, now you have your one solid 5 inch. Problem solved.

JSmuve · Answer

LOL, we both know you ain't go no boyfriend

My boyfriend has 9,5 inches and he's just too long what should I do?

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