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Sexual Health My boyfriend has over 10,000 porn pictures saved to his computer, should I dump him?
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My boyfriend is obsessed with saving pictures of other women nude. He has over 10,000 photos that he has collected from the internet he says. I've tried to delete the picture and when I have it makes him very angry. I don't understand why is he gets so mad over photos of women that are supposedly strangers? He has gone as far as doing a full restore to his computer to retrieve the deleted pictures. I'm a model too but it bothers me he has more pictures of other women then me. Should I dump him? Is he lying to me and the reason he goes so far to retrieve the pictures is because he does know some of the women? please help
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18 36The strangest point for me is that he wants to save them to his computer, instead of watching them online if he wanted. So it means he's very into it, more than most guys.
I could be a reason for dumping him, yes.
10,000 is a lot. But why is that big of a deal?
Viewing porn while in a relationship is not cheating. I'd only see it being an issue if he didn't wanna have sex and look at porn instead.
he looks at porn... so what? the only thing it means is that he´s not gay. chill about it. it´s normal.
I'm bothered because every time he opens the internet on his phone it's in a porn site already. I'm bothered because everytime I leave the room or go take a shower he is looking at porn. He even wants to do a public blog posting his favorite porn pictures. I feel someone this obsessed with looking at other women is probably going to cheat on me if he hasn't already
so maybe he has a little bit of a porn obsession going. that´s a very long shot from being a cheater... actually if he never looks at porn whatsoever this would worry me more to be honest. i mean i´d still like to keep nudes i got even if i am with a girl and i love her and i never plan on cheating on her xD i mean even if the sex with her is good and plentiful, it´s just nice to do it for yourself once in a while.
OMG No. Dont dump him. I keep lots of pictures for when Im away on my frequent travels. (I dont perve at other girls in from of her).
I think this is natural. Boys are visual. We like to look. That's all it is. He cannot cheat on you with a photo.
Ok dump him cause you are insecure ! Great
not at all insecure bur it is concerning when he only has like 5 picturea of me and the rest other women. I've never heard of or seen a guy do this before
not at all insecure but it is concerning when he only has like 5 pictures of me and the rest are all other women. I've never heard of or seen a guy do anything like this before
Well maybe he is a porn addict? But is that the only reason why you wanna dump him
Yeah why do you care about strange women?
And who said you could just delete files from other people and still think you are the right one?
I'm bothered because every time he opens the internet on his phone it's in a porn site already. I'm bothered because everytime I leave the room or go take a shower he is looking at porn. He even wants to do a public blog posting his favorite porn pictures. I feel someone this obsessed with looking at other women is probably going to cheat on me if he hasn't already
10.000 pictures is too much, doesn't he think?
I'm bothered because every time he opens the internet on his phone it's in a porn site already. I'm bothered because everytime I leave the room or go take a shower he is looking at porn. He even wants to do a public blog posting his favorite porn pictures. I feel someone this obsessed with looking at other women is probably going to cheat on me if he hasn't already
Well, i see, because you posted this on everyone's comment, you're very tired of this. Tell him. Tell him what you feel. I mean in the way of; i feel that you spend too much time on porn instead of me. You wathc porn every time, everywhere. It feels for me like 24/7 porn. I don't ask for 24/7 me but quit or at least decrease it a lot.
He sounds like a loser to me, dump him.
... If he's dumb enough to SAVE his porn then you should probably dump him.
Naked photo collector eh? Maybe he wanna compare naked women according to boob size booty size, eye color, hair color, length, vagina type etc.
If you tried to delete my pictures, I'd kick your ass out of my home.
I'm bothered because every time he opens the internet on his phone it's in a porn site already. I'm bothered because everytime I leave the room or go take a shower he is looking at porn. He even wants to do a public blog posting his favorite porn pictures. I feel someone this obsessed with looking at other women is probably going to cheat on me if he hasn't already
why does he need them saved?
I'd have him choose between the pics and you. But he sounds like an idiot.
If you think that's a lot...
I wanna say ' no ' because there's nothing wrong with porn but... why the fuck has he got a stash of 10,000 pics? I know of more than one site that's better and there's enough content that you certainly don't need to make a collection of it. He's a weirdo.
Thats it?
If yoy want to dump him because of your own insecurities yeah why not.
not at all insecure bur it is concerning when he onky has like 5 picturea of me and the rest other women. I've never heard of or seen a guy do this before
Il give you a guy's perspective on this. He probably started watching porn and porn pics since he was a teen. He probably has been watching porn for several years. It has become a part of him. He doesn't want to delete it because he feels like he would delete a part of himself because he is doing for sooo long now. If you want him to delete it do it step by step. Replace his old porn identity with you and use it as an opportunity for you and him to grow closer together.
Yon can find endless porn movies or pictures in most guys laptop, pc, tablet, so chill we just save them to masturbate once in a while.
No, he likes it. He isn't bothering them.
no... some guys just like porn... i haven't looked at porn in 3 months.. some guys will never stop watching it, that doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive
Hummm but he never looks at MY pictures and I've sent him nudes just like the ones he stares at all day every day
that is weird... you could try and talk to him and see why
Will do thank you for taking the time
Trust me. My boyfriend is the same. We had a huge fight over it but i learnt something. Guys watch porn even when theyre in relationships. Its just how they are. They need something for when your not around. My boyfriend never lied about it, his always been open about his porn. We even watched it together once. Be confident, trust me. Its better he watches porn than cheats. The only time id see this as an issue if he choose porn over you by not having sex with you.