My boyfriend has told his parents about our sexual issues, I feel uncomfortable?

My boyfriend and I (he’s 26, I’m 22) are virgins. We’re having trouble with intimacy. He’s all for discussing these things with his parents. He’s having issues with keeping hard when he puts a condom on. As well as that, we’re having issues getting it in my vagina when it has been hard, and getting his fingers up. So he told me he told his parents. I just want some privacy in this aspect. Am I overreacting here?

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  • You are not overreacting at all. Your sex life should be private between the 2 of you. It sounds like nerves are getting to him. Does he stay hard and orgasm from a handjob? Maybe try more foreplay, encourage him, get him to jerk off a little less so he is fully charged.
    He just has to learn to be comfortable being naked with you and to go real slow with sex. Maybe stick with fingering, oral and handjobs and share some orgasms together to build his confidence. What are your thoughts?

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  • First issue, y’all need to get each other going as soon as you wake up. Push that anticipation all day. Until he is a veteran and can keep it hard.. otherwise he needs to see a doctor..


    For your second problem…. LUBE!!! nothing wrong with getting Lube and putting it on… your pussy may be dry because you don’t really know what turns you on quite yet. That will come. Until them. Get some water based Lube or research and get the Lube that’s right for your body. You will find that shit slips in with no issues.

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  • You're not overreacting at all. That's weird.

  • I don't believe you are overreacting. It's seems a little out of the ordinary for him to want to discuss those kinds of things with his parents, especially without asking your permission first.

  • Not overreacting. He needs to learn some things are private. Especially things about intimacy. He still should be able to talk to his dad or his brother about problems he's having without being overly specific especially about you. He needs to learn about boundaries and privacy.

  • Talk to him about this... He shouldn't be sharing anything like that with his parents or even a friend without asking you first. Consent is important for these things too. Just make him understand that you're not comfortable and what's done is done but for future this is how you want it to go. P. s you can't take back the info his parents have now so no point in reacting to that just tell him to convey his parents not to bring up this topic if that would make you feel better😂😂

  • My response would have been dude - what the hell? This is Not something you talk with your parents about!

  • Understandable that you feel that way. He may feel uncomfortable talking to you about it. Because he feels not man enough for you. Maybe talking to his parents he's more comfortable.

    But he should've asked for your permission and asked for you to join conversation.

    I don't know I'm trying to figure it out. I understand both sides.

  • That’s odd. He should have asked a friend

    • Does he have lots of friends?

  • No, that's creepy AF. Sounds like he has some serious issues.

    • I could understand maybe if he was 18, but he’s 26😭

  • That's freaking weird, and you have every right to feel the way you do.

  • Nope.

  • no thats ur right its not their business to know about ur sexual life u tell him to keep it secret or u leave him

  • Not at all. Probably wrong sized condom or could try a pump and cock ring and some lube

  • Over sharing is one of the issue most relationship have.

  • Maybe his dad should get involved and show him how to please a lady 😅

  • Thsts fucking weird

  • 26 is a little late to have the sex talk with your parents but, at least he feels comfortable talking with his parents about it. Some guys just cut off their parents from their lives. It’s gonna be great when he tells them you both had sex for the first time too and they take him to Olive Garden to celebrate 🎉

  • How long have you both been together now