My boyfriend and I have been unresponsible?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year coming up and been having sex unprotected. He’s always pulled out or slowed down but just recently last week he busted a little nut and I had to go to Walgreens and pay $50 for a plan b. Once again he does it yesterday and I guess now again I have to get another plan b. My money just keeps going to waste for a plan b and never one time has he offered to pay for it. Before we did it I told him I didn’t want to give him head cause that’s the only thing he wanted to do since I was on my cycle. But I left my shoes at his house and he wants me to give him head and he sexual. Of course that leads yo others things and I asked him to not do anything stupid. Then when it happens he wants to gaslight me and say I says if it happens I’ll buy a plan b. I never said that you can’t keep using plan b back to back and it will magically work every-time. It hasn’t been a day yet but I’m already getting worried. I’m on nexplanon for three months now

[integrale77]

It is irresponsible if your purely relying on the withdrawal method as it's a poor choice.

If your forking out as much as that on the morning after pill then it's only fair he contribute something.

However if you are on another form of birth control then your probably throwing money down the drain on the morning after pill.

[summiter]

He is using you just for his orgasms. The pull out method does not work! Precum can have some sperm in it. Use condoms every time or consider an IUD or birth control pills. When you give him a bj does he return the favor every time? You deserve some good orgasms also!

[Agape93]

Like Liam said, dump his ass. He's using you for sex and he won't respect your wishes.

[SnakeBoop]

you know... condoms cost cheaper... or stop having sex if you're stupid about it

[Asker]

Your not helping

[Asker]

But yes condoms can help

[SnakeBoop]

I am helping. Stop paying for plan b and giving sex like a cheap whore and either use condoms or stop al

[horatiohornblower]

If you can't be bothered to take birth control daily. Get an IUD. Then set a reminder in your calendar to pop up in however many years it expires. To get it replaced.

Because a baby is going to cost you a hell of a lot more than birth control.

[Asker]

I have a implant

[horatiohornblower]

If you have an IUD already. Then what are you worried about?

[Faerum]

Tell him, he’s paying for plan B if he nuts in you. And it can’t be used often. If he can’t handle that then no sex. End of story.

[Asker]

Correct

[slatyb]

WTFF? Why isn't he using a condom? Why aren't you on birth control? Have you considered an IUD? Set it and forget it. Or do you secretly want to have a baby?

[LiamSawyer]

I think you mean irresponsible. He's a selfish jerk and if you got pregnant he'd probably dump you. Do the smart thing and dump him first

[Nazgol]

That's why there's a thing called birth controls

[emperor90]

He is using u he should be wearing a condom so he does not get u preganant

[Oh-canada]

Ok so what do you want us to say. You are a stupid idiot.

[Asker]

Okay