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Sexual Health My boyfriend is a receiver but not a giver?
Anonymous
I struggle with blowjobs because of my hyperactive gag reflex so even with the tip I am gagging. It is really uncomfortable and I always end up with a headache. My boyfriend expects blowjobs often but will rarely go down on me. He says that he never went down on his exes so I should feel lucky that he will with me. I blow him probably about 3-4 times a week and he will go down on me maybe once a month. I have told him that I don't see it as fair but he just ignored it and changed the subject. Am I overreacting thinking that it is unfair?
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 13Most men are selfish in bed
He sounds like an ass, he should go down on you as much as you go down on him, shit I'm a girl and love head so that's petty
It's totally unfair! I used to be in a situation like that although not quite as bad, so eventually I just started giving him bj's only when there was agreement that the favor would be returned. He still half-asses it and I still slave away in discomfort until he finishes, but it's getting better with time.