My boyfriend is active in sexual. Help?

My boyfriend of 3yrs is much more active in sexual than me. Time to time, most frequently, he wants to have sexual acts with me. But i don't really. I will only into it when im really into the mood else i won't do it. The problem is, he gets upset when i don't give/do it with him when he wants to. Is this a problem?
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  • Yes it is a problem.
    But HE is the problem.

    He can't expect you to have sex with him whenever he wants.
    Both people have to WANT to.

    If he can't accept this without whining about it, you need a new boyfriend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well. I suppose it’s time to breakup and find yourself a man that only wants company from a female but doesn’t ever want sex

Most Helpful Girls

  • he only wants you for sex


    or he thinks you aren’t sexually interested in him

  • You’re not sexually compatible, so things probably won’t work out, I’m afraid

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  • What percentage of the time do you deny him?

  • Basically you will only do it when you are really in the mood, but when he is really in the mood, who cares, right?

  • shouldn't do it unless ur comfortable, weird he's getting upset

  • So, you're being selfish, basically

    • Nobody should feel like they have to have sex if they don’t want to

    • If they're in a relationship They should

    • She said that she does it when she’s in the mood, which is fair enough. Perhaps he is being selfish for prioritising himself and his own pleasure. I agree that they are sexually incompatible, so their relationship probably won’t work out- but that doesn’t mean she should feel guilty for not having sex with him when she doesn’t want to

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  • The problem is he wants to have sex and you don't