My boyfriend is always horny?

Question

So my boyfriend is always horny and wants action every time we see each other. But I’m getting really tired of doing it every time. We’ve talked about it and he said it’s okay. But he always pressures me for me until I just give in. Is it wrong for me not to wanna have sex every time we see each other. I always feel guilty that he will get tired of me not wanting it and get it from someone else.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he hasn't seen you in a half week to a week, it would be unusual for him to not want to have sex when he sees you. Some guys wouldn't but the vast majority would. It doesn't mean he's only dating you for sex, any more then the fact he wants to speak each time he sees you means he's only dating you for conversation, or anything else. That said, for many people and most men, sexual contact is not just a nice bonus in a relationship, that mutual desire is like one leg of the chair that makes up your relationship. They might -wait- for it, but that's different from not thinking it matters.

If you two have wildly different sex drives, that's going to be a relationship killer - one person will feel rejected, the other pressured and used. Some compromise is possible, but a wide gulf rarely is. Doesn't mean either of you is wrong, it's just a very important element of compatibility.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

How rarely you see him? and yes if you don't keep him satisfied it could damage your relationship.

Fido1234 · Accepted Answer

He doesn't seem to respect your feelings, and a relationship only on the basis of sex doesn't seem healthy either. There are other fun activities to do as well instead of having sex. If its draining you physically and emotionally, I don't think its really worth it.

Zarapeachy · Accepted Answer

He just has a high sex drive. And probably very sexually attracted to you. Nothing bad but if you don’t like it, tell him or leave the situation

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Yeah it's wrong...

JPrez · Answer

I’ll be honest. He is in his sexual prime and thinks about it all the time. It will remain high for quite some time. If you stay with him, you need to understand this side of him. He could move on at some point if your two sex drives don’t click. It’s a possibility.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Start charging him. Tell him you want to start saving for a down payment on a home when the two get married.

Kru2020 · Answer

I guess it depends on how often you see each other.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

In a way you contradict yourself. Cause you don’t wanna fuck yet you don’t want him to find it elsewhere. Make a decision. Either make the changes to suit his high sex drive? Or leave

worldscolide · Answer

Find someone else, don't try to change him.

Wise4myage · Answer

You hold the keys to the kingdom, so just start saying no more often and tell him to jerk off if he's that horny.

Pete671 · Answer

No it's not wrong to not want sex every time you meet, but do you really want to be with a guy that disrespects you like this?,,,

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If you start to use sex as a weapon he will dump you.

CreamySeed · Answer

Wtf once a week is always horny? Get a medical checkup you got a low sex drive.

jogor20 · Answer

I can assure you that I have a bigger cock than your boyfriend..

Board_Tennis77 · Answer

I think this is so good

Sheluvs_Frosty · Answer

Oop..

Anonymous · Answer

My guess is that he had to hit on you first

Anonymous · Answer

Lol my HS boyfriend was like this. Eventually I stopped being attracted to him, but I think other factors played a role in that also.

Anonymous · Answer

They all are at that age but if he doesn’t see you every day then it’s probably not too much and he is probably doing all the work so how is it tiring?