My boyfriend is always horny?

So my boyfriend is always horny and wants action every time we see each other. But I’m getting really tired of doing it every time. We’ve talked about it and he said it’s okay. But he always pressures me for me until I just give in. Is it wrong for me not to wanna have sex every time we see each other. I always feel guilty that he will get tired of me not wanting it and get it from someone else.
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  • If he hasn't seen you in a half week to a week, it would be unusual for him to not want to have sex when he sees you. Some guys wouldn't but the vast majority would. It doesn't mean he's only dating you for sex, any more then the fact he wants to speak each time he sees you means he's only dating you for conversation, or anything else. That said, for many people and most men, sexual contact is not just a nice bonus in a relationship, that mutual desire is like one leg of the chair that makes up your relationship. They might -wait- for it, but that's different from not thinking it matters.

    If you two have wildly different sex drives, that's going to be a relationship killer - one person will feel rejected, the other pressured and used. Some compromise is possible, but a wide gulf rarely is. Doesn't mean either of you is wrong, it's just a very important element of compatibility.

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  • He doesn't seem to respect your feelings, and a relationship only on the basis of sex doesn't seem healthy either. There are other fun activities to do as well instead of having sex. If its draining you physically and emotionally, I don't think its really worth it.

  • He just has a high sex drive. And probably very sexually attracted to you. Nothing bad but if you don’t like it, tell him or leave the situation

    • Thank you!! :)

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  • Yeah it's wrong...

    • For you to not having it*

  • I’ll be honest. He is in his sexual prime and thinks about it all the time. It will remain high for quite some time. If you stay with him, you need to understand this side of him. He could move on at some point if your two sex drives don’t click. It’s a possibility.

  • Start charging him. Tell him you want to start saving for a down payment on a home when the two get married.

  • In a way you contradict yourself. Cause you don’t wanna fuck yet you don’t want him to find it elsewhere.


    Make a decision.


    Either make the changes to suit his high sex drive? Or leave

    • MHO right here

    • I don’t mind giving it to him sometimes but sometimes I just wanna spend time with him. Like I wanna do like every other time but I feel like I’m hurting him by doing that.

    • That sounds absolutely ridiculous. Even by having sex, you’re spending time with him

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  • I guess it depends on how often you see each other.

    • Once or twice a week.

    • It's not too bad but it's also not much, many young couples are having sex every day.

    • Yeah you're really not having that much sex then. I don't know what to tell you a healthy relationship does that 3 or more times in a week. It is a perfectly normal part of a relationship. Once or twice in a week is nothing..

  • Find someone else, don't try to change him.

  • You hold the keys to the kingdom, so just start saying no more often and tell him to jerk off if he's that horny.

  • No it's not wrong to not want sex every time you meet, but do you really want to be with a guy that disrespects you like this?,,,

    • I see where you’re coming from. But I don’t think he means disrespect by it, because he does treat me good. I think he might just be excited since I was his first.

    • Well you sure don't act like you more experienced than him, you acting very prudishly.

  • If you start to use sex as a weapon he will dump you.

    • What do you mean by that?

  • Wtf once a week is always horny? Get a medical checkup you got a low sex drive.

  • I can assure you that I have a bigger cock than your boyfriend..

    • Wow. Such small dick energy.

    • Follow me back and you see 😉

    • Desperate too

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  • I think this is so good

  • Oop..

  • My guess is that he had to hit on you first

  • Lol my HS boyfriend was like this. Eventually I stopped being attracted to him, but I think other factors played a role in that also.

  • They all are at that age but if he doesn’t see you every day then it’s probably not too much and he is probably doing all the work so how is it tiring?

    • I wouldn’t say it’s physically tiring. But sometimes I just feel kinda objectified because it’s like he only comes to see me for sex even though he says he doesn’t. Do you think me taking his virginity plays a role in why he acts this way.

    • It might play a role, but it's common for guys to want more sex than girls, whatever they virgin or not, and some people expect a virgin guy to be less sexual but it clearly not the case here.

      tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

      tvtropes.org/.../AManIsAlwaysEager

    • Maybe partly, I know I was like that with my first girlfriend, I saw her 3 times a week and had sex every time

  • He probably will get it from someone else if you aren't putting out.

  • He probably wears ur pussy out if he has a big dick.