My boyfriend is always turned on?

Question

What shall I do sometimes I like it sometimes not and I don't want to hurt him. Is it normal?

SENSEI · Accepted Answer

in his age range its perfectly normal , you will have to find the right balance , cause if he likes you he won't force you on anything , and he will take SOME refusals ok , BUT if you keep refusing it like 50 per cent of the time or along this lines , if you refuse he's needs way too often , whats gonna happen is that he his gonna throw your ass out or cheat on you , if you dont do your part as his girlfriend , then there is no reason to stay faithfull , beeing monogamic is about doing it with one person only , as long as that person puts out ofc...
But it is fine to not feel like it at times , and if he likes you he will understand

1988fido · Accepted Answer

It's not normal
In these situations

1- ur relationship been for long time
2- u have many times sex and still turned on
3- depends on his age :) how old are u both.

Otherwise it's normal.

And worst case scenario he have high sex drive ( un normal )

Or he is taking something that's why always Turned on

AthleticMom · Accepted Answer

YES at your age of course
and those times you don't like it, cash in on his willingness to give a massage, foot rub, etc. while you ponder the very real probability that this is not a forever match, so keep shopping for a guy more synced to your sexual drive &/or you don't mind being turned on so much... understand?

Poppykate · Accepted Answer

Lol. I am guessing your boyfriend is under 21? Sweetie, they are always horny. The trick is to find a time when they are not! Lol 😂

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Let me guess, he's somewhere between 16 and 30. Pretty normal.

godfatherfan · Answer

Sorry but you need to just accept it. You women are like steel when it comes to sex. Men always want sex. But that doesn't mean sex is all we want from a woman. Just remember that he knows how to take care of things himself very well. So if you don't want sex, he will blow out the pipe himself.

DictatorCaesar · Answer

When viable and you're interested do something to alleviate his boner. I have this problem too because I have a very strong sex​ drive -- my girlfriend alleviates it when she can with rubs or other things, otherwise I just jack off but sometimes it does feel like I'm rejected.

FemWorship · Answer

It's normal for HIM so maybe you find another guy more your speed or you don't mind being this way as much

zombiebabe · Answer

consider is a good thing... you turn him on... and yea its normal ;)

Tileguy0723 · Answer

how old is he? probably his age... the male libido is so strong around 20 years old

Nik1hil · Answer

You are too Sexy for him to handle.  Besides you don't to him to put it in everytime blowjob! Hand jobs! Foot jobs what are they for

FatherJack · Answer

VERY normal for a late teen / 20's guy , he will have a sex drive millions of times higher than his female counterpart , due to sky high testosterone levels.