My boyfriend is blaming me on why he’s itching down there?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend texted me saying he itches down there and I texted him ok he should probably get checked or shower. I’ve never cheated or gave him anything either and I’m aware of my status only because I gave blood for like the past 4 months when my doctor was running medical test on me. We also haven’t even had sex in almost a month due to our work schedules and him also just doing dumb things. He texted me back saying it’s my fault. And I’m really hurt right now he’s blaming me. Like legit saying it’s my fault he “itches”

[loveslongnails]

Until he knows what is causing it, there's no one to "blame". Could be anything from jock itch to a rash, or a reaction to fabric or a new soap, or... he fucked someone else and she gave him crabs. Point is, until he gets diagnosed, tell him to go fuck his hand because your pussy is off limits. Seriously, not just because he's being an ass, but what if he DID contract something? Or maybe it IS a skin rash that's contagious unless treated? Your position right now should be " find out what it is, because we're not having sex again until you do !!" Seriously.

[Asker]

I broke up with him but thank for the opinion which is probably true

[4eyes2mouths]

A male can not show symptoms of an STD sometimes until way down the road. So it's easy for his to have it hoarded inside his body until it develops into actually symptoms. Not sure how long you have been dating him but he could have had it from other partners in the past.

[Asker]

We’ve been dating for 5 months so not long and I don’t know but we probably won’t be together long I’m not putting up with this. I did nothing wrong

[4eyes2mouths]

I understand, he should just shut up and go to the doctor.

[Asker]

We broke up but thanks for the opinion

[4eyes2mouths]

Good and you're welcome

[Aquariusgangsht]

That’s fucked up lmao the asshole is basically saying you’re dirty & that you’re not clean or you gave him something. If he’s itching it may just be him or it may also be you (sometimes girls get yeast infections from their partner’s ph levels or some shit like that) but he doesn’t need to point gingers so harshly

[Asker]

Yea which is why I’m upset I’m far from that and I’ve never gotten a uti or yeast infection which I know are normal things (knocks on wood) . But yea he’s blaming me and we’re actually arguing about it right now he keeps it up he’ll be single still dealing with his issue down below.

[Aquariusgangsht]

Is he circumcised? If not, you can call him out for having cheese dick 🤪🤪🤪 hurt just feelings like that

[Asker]

No but I broke up with him I don’t deserve to be treated the way he’s treating me anymore

[LordSnuggles]

Probably dry skin. Does he shave there often? It is getting colder. Skin dries and gets itchy and flakey.

[Asker]

Yes the weather is getting colder up north but the fact is he’s blaming me

[LordSnuggles]

It could be a dozen things before you. He should be going to the doctor before making accusations like a thoughtless dick. Guys itch down there sometimes. Ingrown hair, dermatitis, etc...

[Asker]

I told him that and he said it’s because of me he’s never experienced this hence why I said just go to the doctor if it’s a huge issue. He’s done this with other things just blaming me then apologizing but this is pretty messed up

[LordSnuggles]

People don't experience a lot of things until they get older. Personally I wouldn't be with someone that dumb and irrational but you two have your thing. Tell him to just see the doctor and be done with it.

[Asker]

Thanks for the opinion I broke up with him so no more of the blaming

[LordSnuggles]

Hahaha well shit. Thats efficient.

[OlderAndWiser]

It could be your fault. You may have a vaginal fungal infection that has been transmitted, and that would take some time to proliferate and become symptomatic in him. Itching does not necessarily mean STD.

[markscott]

Well, before saying much of anything, your idiot boyfriend needs to find out what is causing his itching.

[Asker]

We aren’t dating anymore his stupid issue I’m tired.

[markscott]

Asker: Good choice.

[hbg84]

He probably got crabs from a dirty toilet. Or he fucked someone else that had crabs and he got them from her

[Asker]

Not From Me. So my name should not be in his mouth

[Asker]

Messed up

[hbg84]

He is just placing blame when it is really his fault.

[Asker]

I broke up with him so it’s all good now. Idc but thanks for the opinion

[hbg84]

I was gonna suggest you break up with him. He sounded like a douche bag

[Asker]

Yea I mean I still care/like him I clearly wasn’t expecting to wake up today and break up with him but I do have a breaking point

[hbg84]

That's completely understandable

[Walrus_au]

I'd suggest not touching him with anything shorter than a 10' pole for the forseeable future, and looking into a better boyfriend. One who doesn't cheat on you and try to blame you for the STI he got elsewhere.

[Asker]

I broke up with him we had other issues anyways and he’s too controlling so he can deal with his issue alone.

[Walrus_au]

Good decision.

[okeydoke]

He's an idiot.
He should get tested, and if he has something you know he's been cheating.

[Asker]

I broke up with him but thanks for the opinion!

[COMMODOREII]

Just because he's horny that's insane.

[ginger_supremacist]

Judging by what you say, he probably cheated on you and caught some STD. And is trying to convince himself that it wasn't his fuck up, by, for example blaming you for it.

You should break up with him unless you want to contract whatever your boyfriend got from his hookup.

[Asker]

I broke up with him last night honestly but that thanks for the opinion

[SilverSnaik]

Well that's a wake up call.

[Asker]

:/ I’m just annoyed like you have a random itch and blame me

[SilverSnaik]

Yes.. But the blaming is not a good sign it means he is unhappy about something. Communicate with him.

[Asker]

I did try to communicate and he was pretty rude and just blamed me instead of thinking that it could be tons of other things

[SilverSnaik]

I'm not an expert about dating. But I do know what it takes to have it last long

[Asker]

Yea I broke up with him but thanks for the opinion