Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 3 month... no sex
He has depression some health issues smokes weed and taked sleeping pills
He says he has no sex desire
I feel very stupid everytime i try to seduce him
Is it ok to offer him a blowjob?
My boyfriend is depressed has low libido?
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2 24It's ok, he just needs a breath of fresh air in bed
Ball bust him with a hammer harshly to stimulate white fluid productions inside pecker
Thanks to blood circulation his abstainment will end once white fluids convert to grey matter in brain. This will decalcify the pineal gland and penile gland too.
That's it, you can now shag roughly and plentiful.
Tell him to stay off the drugs and weed then it will come back, offering a bj is nice but he won’t get hard with all that going on
Is he taking antidepressants?
Yes Heavy ones
Shit no question. There was fascinating stuff published on pubmed about post SSRI sexual dysfunction reversal using cyproheptadine, which is prescription required in some places. Where do you live?
Does he have trouble getting hard or just not enjoying it?
@Guy__ Now in Spain We move a lot due to job
@Guy__ he takes suboxone too
@Asker, I knew a guy who was on Prozac. He said it did wonders for his depression and absolutely killed his sexual desire. You might want to consider just bailing on this thing.
Suboxone? So he's taking heavy antidepressants and synthetic heroin? In my line of work I know many people who have taken suboxone. Many of them say it's worse than heroin. If I were you I would just get out.
He takes suboxone to avoid taking heroin He says he feels sick is he doesn't take it, sweats vomits etc He acts totally normal when he takes it
I can't get out when he is in the lowest and worst moment of his life It would destroy him even more
Agree, I don't suggest getting out.
@Guy__ thanks... i feel i should wait He wanted to broke up just 10 minutes after calling me his baby and sending kisses They guy is not ok He has mental issues as a result of stress Im even afraid to leave him I think he'd go crazy
Maybe he wanted to brake up because he notices how uncomfortable it makes you and doesn't want you to "feel very stupid trying to seduce him" I've never taken those substances so I can't know. I assume that mental health will improve after sex improves.
@Guy__ yeah thats why He thinks if he can't make me happy now we should break up Its not how i as a woman think He has horrible self asteem
I can relate. Making you happy WILL help big time.
@Guy__ he can't make me happy now He literally cried at hs own office
@Guy__ i mean that ofc i want him to make me happy But i can't demand it from him now I must stay by his side and support him and love him and make him space if its needed I dont want to break up with him I feel pity
Crying isn't bad overall. I believe things can improve. As I said before, cyproheptadine is used to reverse antidepressants, treats SSRI induced anorgasmia, and is a sleep aid for insomnia and PTSD nightmares. And it's cheap.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1900585/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2211550/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18774063/
You may play around with the dosage, start low at 1mg per day. Try dosing just once a week etc. Cyproheptadine is a very interesting chemical, I actually ordered it bulk from manufacturers.
If he tends to under eat, cypro is awesome for appetite as well.
@Guy__ i can't make him take it by force
Don't, I don't know how your situation looks like but maybe show him the science and talk to an expert?
@Guy__ we are in different towns... i dont know what to do😱😭
Buy a shockwave therapy device anyway, even for yourself. If your private parts are happy with their blood flow, use the shockwave machine on other body parts, for example face lift, exactly like ultrasound except more effective. If he agrees give him the treatment.
Here is a good advertisement https://gainswave.com/
Just get your own machine.
I've sent the link to a low price machine in the other thread.
@Guy__ thats interesring ill consider it, thanks
Guy, could you please start your own thread?
I did, she replied here sometimes. I joined this because you were the first to ask about antidepressants.
I understand and it's no big deal, but every time I get a notification I think it's someone replying to me about something else and it's never is.
Sounds like u need a new man then.
Why you think so
Because he’s not giving u the pleasure u are wanting. That’s no fun.