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Sexual Health My boyfriend is never in the mood for sex. Help?
Rachel6 Xper 3
Hello everyone, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years and recently, starting in about March this year he hasn't seemed too interested in having sex with me anymore. We used to do it at least once a week but now it seems like once every 2 months. He'll stop wanting to do stuff for a few weeks at a time and then randomly it'll be okay again for us and then it'll go downhill again. I tried talking to him about this but he just gets super mad at me. He always has an excuse like "I'm not in the mood" "I'm too tired" "I didn't know you were in the mood" "Maybe I'm stressed", etc. He is still super lovey with me and says he wants to have kids and get married still one day. I have suggested him go see someone about this because maybe he's low on something but he will not go. Everytime I mention this issue to him he says for me to stop talking about it. I even asked him if he could go months without doing anything and he said yes. What can I do? I am going insane! He even called me a sex addict for wanting to have sex at least once a week like we used to.
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I don't want to break up either, I lovw him way too much. I just want to know what I can do, I have tried spicing things up also too.
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Also, I do get him hard still. He does get turned on still but he won't act on it, I notice that he gets turned on when I try to do stuff to him but he won't do anything about it
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 29text me inbox i will help you
what stuff are you doing to him like maybe thats the problem
Try something new. New positions, ropes, d/s -stuff, I don't know.
Maybe it is time he visits doctor.
Damn it. Why do almost all men get like that after a couple of years at best?
try to change things in sex like positions and all.
some times just role play and leave him hard.
don't be ready when he says he's in mood even though you're in mood tell him I am not in mood. and like that.
sometimes same things bores people may be he's bored of same sex.
there will be different type of things if you wanna do.
just try some caring if you can't go rude with him.
You will probably have to break up. I know you're not ready too. Whatever you do do NOT get more committed with him.
I'm sorry.
Maybe swing, spice it up bring another women try it out
It gets boring having sex with the same woman after a while especially for young men.
Just looking at the body of another attractive woman who isn't your girlfriend can get you int the mood.
The main reason is: you don't get him hard anymore.
I do get him hard actually, he still gets turned on but he won't do anything about it when he is.
Yeah then he's not thinking about you. Men get hard for no reason whatsoever. and if you really did get him hard and excited he would've want to put it inside you and take care of it.
He gets hard when I do stuff to him so I know I do turn him on still.
Trust me when i say This will only get worse from here.