My boyfriend is refusing to have sex with me on my period then gets mad when I use a vibrator I don't know what to do?

I’ve never dated someone that won’t throw a towel down and have period sex. I get really horny and my boyfriend won’t. So I started using a vibrator really only when I have my period and he gets upset. I feel like that’s not fair …….
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  • He really has no reason to get upset at you, and you shouldn't try to make that your problem. He probably doesn't know it, but he's really upset at himself, for not wanting you during your period. You can try showing him videos of period sex (it's not bad and in fact the extra lubrication helps) and he might change his mind. If he doesn't, your well-being is important, so keep using the vibrator. To reduce conflict with him, use the vibrator when he's not around.

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  • That's not fair, he's being selfish, if he dosent like period sex that's fine he don't have to but for him to get jealous of a vibratory and try to control you is out of line.

    Everyone masterbates, I don't know how he dosent understand that or has trouble excepting it..

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  • That’s dumb. He didn’t want to have sex, so you used a vibrator…. He could’ve had sex but he didn’t want to lol. Does he expect you to just not do anything about it?

    • Yes yes he does 😒

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  • You're right, that's not fair. We all the right to set our own boundaries, but you respect his not wanting to have sex with you, he needs to respect your seeing to your own needs. It's not like you're with another PERSON, just a machine.

  • I agree with you , its the height of the cycle , and some of the best sex you'll ever have , collect some red towels and tell him to grow a pair , just keep using the brator.. good luck enjoy.

  • He is an idiot! Let him get upset and continue doing as you do. or better yet, get a real man for a boyfriend. One who respects your right to use a vibrator when you wish.

  • Is period sex actually safe? I have no idea about this..

  • Tell him to man up, stop being a little pussy, and do me from behind god damn it! 😂

    • After reading some of your other replies, it sounds like you've got a defective model, can you return him for a refund?

  • WTFF? Dump him, and date someone less annoying.

  • It isn't fair. Your boyfriend's a douchebag.

  • Don't tell him when your aunt Flow is coming for a visit.
    I REALLY don't understand why guys are so scared shitless of pussy blood!!

  • New boyfriend maybe lol jk, I don't know I think a man should be ready WHENEVER his partner is ready to go I mean regardless of period or pregnancy

  • Get you a man like me who loves period sex including giving oral during periods. Best sex of the month

    • Did you mean this question for women only to answer?

  • Get a new boyfriend. You know, one that isn't a ridiculous baby maybe? How do you even feel attracted to a grown ass man who's as immature and insecure as him? What a fucking clown.

    • Are you really dumb enough to let him control you like that?

  • Yeah that's not fair I mean I get if he doesn't want sex during your period most guys don't but you should not be denied of sexual pleasure. I don't really care if my girlfriend is on her period asking it's not a lot of blood. Just tell him if I not getting no pleasure from you I have to take matters in my own hands.

  • Hmmm are you asking he to lick you? Or only having sex? What if he use condom? Would you mind?

    • No I’m asking to have regular sex and he’ll say no still

    • Is it okay if he use condom in this period?

    • I wouldn’t care but he’s not going to want to do that

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  • sounds like your boyfriend is a wuss, I'd be in that shit as much as you'd allow. He must be dumb too, this is what I consider playing with fire

  • Fuck in the shower

  • I like this guy!! You finally went out with a guy with morals!!


    If I was him I wouldn’t even date you.

  • he is immature

  • Most people don't like with girl on periods, so don't annoy, but he should not object to use Vibrater by his girlfriend

  • He's missing out

  • Get s new boyfriend!

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