My boyfriend is worried because he used a bigger sized condom and is worried I could be pregnant but it never come off during sex why is he worried?

[Anonymous]

[Glenn603]

Have you both had sex together many times and more to the point has he had sex many times before you? i. e. is he new to sex?
I'm wondering if he is over thinking things and worrying and becoming paranoid which could have also lead to a mini panic attack.
A bit like if you booked a holiday late at night on the spur of the moment, and just afterwards you start to panic, and think oh no what have I done? what am I going to do? I can't do it, I don't want to go etc.
Maybe deep down he knows the condom didn't come off or poke a hole in it, but is thinking oh no what have I done and I don't want to make you pregnant.

[Asker]

He said he put a king size on but it seemed pretty secure on his Penistone and it didn't come off at all

[HSalenko]

If the condom didn't leak or break then you're both fine. It must be said that one needs to use a proper fitting condom for best results. If I had to guess why he's freaking out, I assume he's on the younger side.

[Asker]

he's 28 and we are new together

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Maybe he poked a hole in it?

If he's extremely worried, suggest he pick up a pregnancy test for you. If that doesn't abate his worry, propose to him a vasectomy. He can have it reversed later and it will help him feel less nervewracked on the day to day.

If he decides to have kids, he can reverse it then.

[Asker]

No he didn't pole s hole in it. he's worried because he accidentally used a bigger size but when we were having sex it looked like the condom was secure and didn't come off

[Asker]

Poke a hole**

[Smoke-n-Growls]

If it never came off, you're probably fine. But it is hard to say whether it'll have been a tight enough fit to stop cum from leaking out around his dick. Still, if he wants the peace of mind, him buying you a pregnancy test can help put his mind at ease.