My boyfriend jumps like a fish when he cums?

Question

Is this normal? When he's about to cum he can't keep his body still he jumps like a fish. I had been with a few guys before (4 or 5 I can't remember) and none of them do this. They would breath very hard or moan a bit.

wölfin-fräulein · Accepted Answer

he directs his energy to his body rather than his brain. most men if you look at them in time of orgasm they keep their heads up, maybe close their eyes and breathe heavily, as though inhaling something, a heavy scent.

that inhaling is the energy that is being freed and it is directed in most up to their brain and that is why they cannot think and their mind gets confused in that state. we are the same too. it is how sexual energy works.

Now what your boyfriend does, wrongly, is that when the energy is being freed he doesn't concentrate it with inhales.

he directs the energy to the body and sexual energy is actually very aggressive. and the amount is great. the only part that can control it is the brain.

so when he leaves that into his body he actually 'feels' that jumping feeling. he is not faking it. the amount of the energy is great. and so he jumps.

and something is, that he may find it actually fun. men are not like this normally. normally inhales are controlled by the body in different states, such as exercising, running, or having an orgasm.

But he may have found this in an experience, or in a masturbation, and found this state fun and satisfactory. and now when he has orgasm he repeats it.

that means, it may not be as though he cannot have an orgasm in normal form, but he likes this form better. and find it different to do.

psychedelic_paprika · Accepted Answer

That's very cod behavior, I think. Sounds like a turtle disaster. I can't say that's ever happened with buoys that i've been with before. I think you should dolphinately have a little talk with him about this. Have you ever talked about sex stuff with him before, or any fin? Unfor-tuna-tely, if you don't talk about this, it'll keep happening. Don't be koi. I hope there's salmon else on this website that can help you with this.

I better stop carping on about this. Just let minnow how this plays out.

Hannah591 · Accepted Answer

Maybe he's overreacting for you to believe it's a really good orgasm. How can he jump about like a fish if he's having sex with you? It doesn't sound normal, you should break it down to him gently.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Orgasms are as varied as the people that have them. He clearly has some interesting twitches but if it's not interfering with great sex, then just go with it.

kambo_trick3y · Accepted Answer

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Kkaos · Answer

I've never heard of it before..

crazyincalifornia · Answer

Good tease and denial will get them crazy. good job. HHHH

lumos · Answer

I mean I know that some people get a bit shaky when they orgasm, but I didn't know that it could be that extreme. Don't think it's very normal.

thelionting · Answer

sounds funny... embrace it everybodys different!!  its not like he gets angry when he comes so yeah embrace the fish like movement :P

Betwyn · Answer

Like.. he thrashes and flops and flips about on the floor?

Blondiee2014 · Answer

The image my brain has created looks pathetically stupid, I don't think it's normal, I certainly don't don't do that.

anastasis · Answer

The B52s covered this issue a long, long time time ago, just as they covered all else in anthropological studies. The B-52's - Rock Lobster (official):