My boyfriend keeps saying he really misses not using condoms?

[Anonymous]

I had a really bad reaction to the pill and I’ve tried a couple. One I ended up in hospital with and I’ve been found to have cysts so not an easy time for me.

I feel bad that we have to use condoms now but we usually start without them and he just puts one on at the end or he has pulled out in the past. So we’re not using them ALL the time really 🤷🏼‍♀️ He comes in me right after my period as well and the couple of days after so once a month it’s still like it used to be.

He said a couple of times he missed the no condom sex and I felt a bit annoyed. I can’t help the way my body has reacted and I’m never going to put myself in the hospital again by pumping my body full of drugs it is reacting badly to.

We’ve been together two years so I’m a bit surprised he’s pressuring me like this.

[Caliguy88]

Condoms do kinda suck. The girl I’ve had the most sex with and I just did the pullout with no birth control and it worked for us! Thank god! But we also have both not had kids and I don’t think she’s ever gotten pregnant with anyone else so maybe we are not able…? Lol

[Asker]

I wouldn’t rely on that lol

[summiter]

It is your body and your choice. You don't sound like you want to be a mommy just yet. The pull out method is dangerous because precum can have some sperm in it. Have you considered getting an implant (IUD)?

How often are you two having sex? If he wants sex he will have to use a condom... the orgasms are still wonderful!!!

[Anonymous]

Track your cycles and get an idea of when your fertile days are and avoid having sex on those days.

[Asker]

Could be risky though lol

[Opinion Owner]

Could be but women only are fertile for no more than 7 day each month. Or you could maybe try the implant as a form of birth control if your body will allow you

[Asker]

Yeah I’ve found the tracking thing on my iPhone so I’ll give that a go

[Opinion Owner]

To help with tracking your cycle days and when you are fertile I recommend maybe also buying a basal body thermometer and use it at the same time first thing in the morning of the first day of your period. It will help you with knowing when your fertile days are the longer you track you will get to the point where you will just know your cycles and know when you are fertile without having to track

[JessJJ]

I just use pull out, have for years. Most of my friends are the same.

[Asker]

He wants to come inside me he said

[JessJJ]

Just avoid your fertile days. You can only get pregnant during about 5 days in a month.

[Kabluie]

He could get snipped or can consider a copper IUD, it's the non-hormonal one, can be good for up to 10 years.

[joeldalton]

What about an IUD?

[Asker]

Still releases hormones and problematic I think

[joeldalton]

Might be worth investigating.

[re-pete]

I don't know, I'm with him. Rubbers totally ruin it. You should probably just ask him to pull out instead.

[Asker]

He wants to come inside though

[re-pete]

Then I'm really with him. I hate pulling out, but it's something girls always ask for. Honestly, it feels way better if the just girl risks it

[Twalli]

How about an IUD?

[abc--123]

Tell him to get the snip

[Asker]

We’ve looked into it for both me and him but no one will do it because we’re too young apparently

[abc--123]

Thats annoying.

[CubaPirate]

WTF is wrong with him

[Anonymous]

I assumed he was the one who pursued you or asked you out

[Anonymous]

Condoms are bad, but if your body reject the pills and you don't want to only have anal and blowjobs you guys can use them. Or, better, to accept pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

He's dropping hints, lol.

[Asker]

He’s dropping hints at what? Obviously no condoms

[Opinion Owner]

Raw sex.

[Asker]

We have that already he just wants to be able To come in me

[Opinion Owner]

Then go on BC.