My boyfriend likes pics of his celebrity crush's ass, is that okay?

Question

Soo we're both 20 and have been together for a little more than a year, and like maybe 6 months back he started to follow this celebrity girl that he stalks all the time and compares me to. He says that we look alike, and that we have the same body, and maybe yes that is true, but I don't get why he has to look at her all the time, and like her pictures where she has her ass in the camera on instagram and stuff. He aslo checks her snapchat mystory everyday, and she is that kind of girl who is almost naked all the time and showing her body, and it kind of bothers me that he constantly checks her profiles. 

He of course says that I'm silly and he only likes her because she looks like me, but is it fair to me? And also he says that it's just like any guy watching porn - but it's not! It's one spicific girl!
He mainly only "like" the pictures where she's got her butt showing and stuff and I just find it really disrespectful. 
Is he right?

Rawrzz · Accepted Answer

Disrespectful? You must be out yo mind. If you don't want to send pictures, you don't have to. But you better learn the fact that a guy is going to look at other women, period. And if he doesn't look at other women, he's going to really, really, really want to. That's just human nature. You will start looking at other men. Only a matter of time. And you're telling me you don't look at other guys?

I really don't understand girls like you. Can't appreciate a physical body. All of the gfs I've had in the past get turned on right along with me watching good old Katie Morgan's t. v. show thing. Or pointing out hot celebrities.

To me, it's a sign of profound insecurity that you would make such a big deal over your guy checking out an ass. Not only that, an ass he will never see in person. If it was some chick he knew that he was constantly checking out, I would understand. But some online chick?

And do you think guys don't get interested in one specific girl when they're watching porn? It's the literally exact same thing. My favorites are Madison Ivy and Krystal Boyd.

I mean come on. Impossible not to look. images.duckduckgo.com/.../

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Impossible.

Further. You say that he watches porn, and apparently you don't have an issue with it. So what is your problem with him actively liking pictures? It's supposed to be a secret, except a secret that you already know? There is no difference. You just want it to be a secret non-secret?

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Have you thought about maybe letting him take some of those kind of photos of you to focus on when he's not with you? Who's the celeb?

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

It's okay for him to like her body, as in simply like it. But it's inappropriate for him to publicly advertise his appreciation of other women's bodies by "liking" them on social media. That's disrespectful to your relationship and it's not like there's any reason why he needs to do it.

former_teenmom · Accepted Answer

Girl dont get so worked up about some girl he will never meet. Now if it was a basic bitch then yes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, then my friend shouldn't be allowed to look at Justin Bieber because she has a boyfriend?

bryon · Answer

While I do think it's showing disrespect to you it's really not the worst thing he could do. Honestly he will never meet this girl so it's just his warped fantasy

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Tell him that if he wants to see a naked girl, you are right next to him and available. If he prefers to see another naked girl, he should be honest with you about that.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

that seems... completely normal

DaTGirl6 · Answer

tell him straight that you cannot handle him doing that.

Pvt_Nutzack · Answer

yea that's okay, its not like he is liking picture of the chick next door, i mean do you think he has a chance of getting it on with that in real life?