My boyfriend likes to be choked during sex... Anyone familiar with this or like this themselves?

[Anonymous]

During sex I recently discovered how much my boyfriend enjoys being choked. He said "take me" during sex the other night... So I choked him gently, held his hands down. and gagged him slightly with my hand. Lol this is totally out of the norm for me, but he likes it. He even asked me to smack him. I laughed after, when teasing him about it, and said next thing you know you will ask for hot wax on your body and he shook his head yes... Any other guys like this kinky stuff to happen to you? Girls, do any of your boyfriends/husbands ask for this? I feel like I am totally out of my league here lol. AHHH!

[Red_Dragon]

No it's a turn off for me. I would be pissed if a girl choked me during sex. I wouldn't want to choke her either, but I might tolerate it some (not a lot). But nah I wouldn't be on the recieving end. Nope. I'd be pissed.

Do you not like it? I'm not much of a kinky person myself.

[Asker]

It was okay. I enjoyed it. I like to be dominate. Just caught me off guard.

[Red_Dragon]

Oh okay. Well good. You discovered you like something new. I'm sure that will enhance y'all's sexual experience in the future.

[Cryostatic]

I don't think I'll ever understand sub guys.

I mean, you basically just described every girlfriend I've ever had.

[Asker]

Kind of how I felt honestly. I felt like he may be a little gay lol but hey , I cannot judge. I mentioned a strap on and he told me he'd kill me if I ever tried lol

[AnnabelLee]

Asker, guys are only gay if they want to have sex with a guy. Being sub is different from being gay.

[bubbletrouble]

One of my exes was into that. He wanted me to choke him and smack him across the face. But I couldn't do it. I thought he was weird. Oddly, I have some domination fantasies now.

[Anonymous]

It makes the orgasms 10x better. I love when to have my ass smacked... not my face

[Asker]

But what if your boyfriend asked you for that?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, his neck is a bit thick, but I can manage when I use my forearm. I slap his fine ass too. If he wanted me to smack him in the face I can do it, but I'd have to cut my nails, because I don't want to scar him.

[AnnabelLee]

I like that a bit myself. Common domination fetishes ^^

[slackercruster]

Choking is bad. He will need more and more abuse to get off. Some asphyxiation devotee die.

[BenjaminBix]

He is a Masochist which is someone who likes to enjoy pain, suffering, or get humiliated during sex.
And I don't like being this or that other so called "Sadist" shit is creepy if you ask me.

[littleblack]

How to avoid this things?

[ploplop9]

my girl puts my hands on her neck, then she scratches me

[Anonymous]

I had a lot of girls ask me to do that to them. we all do all salts of weird shit My girlfriends and female friends.

[Asker]

Yeah but my man is asking me to do it to him. not me asking him.

[Opinion Owner]

I know you meant he want's it done to him. I miss read thing you said did we know anyone else thats in to it.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is also submissive but he doesn't like to be choked...

[Anonymous]

I find that incredibly arousing, and actually a lot of guys have a desire to be sexually dominated from time to time. It's not that unusual, but if you didn't enjoy it you are in no way obligated to do any of that, although if you did enjoy it you may want to find out what other kinks/fetishes he may have and explore them with him.

[Asker]

Just weirded me out a bit. I had fun with it. Just made me feel like he may swing the other way how he said "take me". MMMMMMMM... Still though, I had fun.