My boyfriend likes to wear fake boobs, bras and panties?

My boyfriend likes to wear fake boobs, bras and panties sometimes and recently he’s started to wear them during sex. It doesn’t really bother me but I’m worried that maybe he wants to transition or something. Like I’m just confused on what he fines so arousing from it and I’m scared to ask him because I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
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  • Ya that's kindaaaa fkin weird. Unusual. It likely stems from childhood experiences with his father that he hasn't taking care of, he tried on lingerie, and Bob's your uncle, now he loves it. Talk to him, help him through it, then tell him that its strange and a very unhealthy way to cope with his trauma, if its trauma related in any way. If not, if he just loves it but it bugs you, then let him dress up in private, go nuts, and when you two are alone you're both naked. Maybe that can be a boundary. But honestly the healthiest thing is to help him kick the habit

    • It doesn’t really bother me, I’m just worried that 5-10 years down the road when we’re married with kids he’ll decide he wants to transition or something. And I don’t want to be with a trans women, I’m strictly into men so I want to figure everything out before we dive to deep into this relationship

  • Well... it definitely sounds like he is a transgender woman who hasn't realized it yet or is in denial. But there might possibly be some bizzare reason why he likes it if he really isn't transgender. Your best bet is to try asking him in a polite way.

    • I don’t know how to ask?

    • You could put it in a nice way by saying "I was just curious what you find so arousing about dressing this way, that way I can understand your sexual fetishes better." It might not offend him if you put it that way without accusing him of anything.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You need to have a conversation with him about this. He's your boyfriend and communication is key.

    • I know I should but I’m scared, and I just want to hear other people’s experiences

  • Time to move on. Had you wanted to have sex with a female you would have been a lesbian.

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  • Sounds like a weird dude

  • Just ask him what's up with it, be direct. Maybe he's into crossdressing, maybe he wants to transition.

  • 🥴 he is going to K pop fan I think.

    • What?

    • Going to be Gay 😂 I guess so

  • I have bad news for you...

    • And?

    • Your "boy"friend gets off of imagining himself being a woman. Give it a few more months (at most years) and he will come out as a tranny.

  • sick.

  • How old is He? If 35 + i hope its just a pre. * "Man"opause * thing and should pass...
    If he's younger... ask him? Do be naive... you may come home on day? and find him with another man?

  • Your boyfriend's gay!!

  • Your boyfriend is weird.

  • Well this sounds like a fetish, girl on girl kind of thing?

  • Run. He has issues.

  • I think that's great that you are that far along in your relationship and come forward y'alls relationship that use for together your things in dressing like that only Kings Cross Christian Center tonight because I just want to know if women are tattooed transgender men that's why I try to do wheelies.

  • Use a strap on and peg him.

    • He doesn’t like anything in the butt

  • It sounds pretty weird to me. Something is going on with him, about his identity.