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Sexual Health My boyfriend loves blowjobs, I hate it?
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Though my boyfriend loves intercourse, he likes oral sex especially blowjobs a lot. And I hate it. I find it really disgusting and that swallowing thing makes me want to vomit. I can't swallow semen/sperm and the idea makes me sick. I ve never given a blowjob before mainly because my ex never wanted blowjobs. He found the idea of kissing private parts gross so it was never done. My boyfriend doesn't pressurize me but he did say he likes blowjobs and it would be nice we started giving each other. As much as I love pampering him and doing whatever he wants, this is one area I can't do it. I might do it if he's wearing a condom but swallowing is NO. What do I do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 35Well you can't help it so just tell him but i wouldn't expect him to give you oral anymore if you stop.
Be clear about it , he should respect ur opinion
Simple, convince him or get convinced.
Why isn't anyone calling her names? If this was a guy saying that eating pussy was disgusting then people would be calling him a Phaggot. Even the girls would make fun of him.
Sounds like a problem you need to fix.
Change your view and start to do it, practice makes you easy there is no necessary to swallow the cum. you can blow without swallow.
Are u sure that u love him?
Just explain it to him. If he really loves you, he'll understand.
ah.. for you sorry :(
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Tell him to pull out, if you trust him he will pull out before he cums
He'll cheat on you 100%
If you dont want to then dont
Of course there's prolly loads of stuff that you love for your boyfriend to do that he would prefer not to do as well. He should stop doing those things too
Spit or dodge.
Have him put on a condom before you go down on him
yep I agree it is disgusting and unhealthy.
You are not obliged to partake in every part of sex fetishes.
Eating pussy is also gross and unhealthy and can cause throat cancer
You should talk about it with him openly.
It may be a sexual incompatibility. Depends how important it is for him.
My wife will suck me but won't let me cum in her mouth; we've compromised. On the other hand, she does do other things that are more important to me. So, we make things work and have a good sex life.
It all depends on whether you can both find a mutually satisfactory middle ground.
Good luck to you!
The first few times grossed me out as well, but the more I do it the more I am starting to like it ;)
It's supposed to be fun. If you don't find it fun, just don't do it.
That said, some people find it fun to be forced to do things but that's another story entirely :P
Be a champ and swallow champ.
Wow, interesting...
You have to talk to him about it...
Flavored condoms, or maybe less BJs?