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My boyfriend loves my body better than when we first met. Is is normal for most guys to love their girlfriends chunkier?

So two years ago when I met my boyfriend I was 125lbs, slender, and fit and now I’m 177lbs cubby and unfit, he seems to be a lot more horny and attracted to me. I’m 5’6”. He can’t stop touching me and loves my love handles and flabby belly. He likes it better than my toned belly. I hate my body right now but I don’t wanna be scrawny like I was in middle school. What girl does? Anyways I looked at my photo and saw how much in shame and more slimmer I was. I said that I would get back to the body I was before. No more junk, garbage food and letting myself go. My boyfriend said bluntly, “You look a lot better now. You can be thicker and be healthier and fit. This may sound harsh but some guys love when their lady puts on some extra weight. Plus more curves, something to brag and it’s sexy. That’s just me. Why would you wanna go back to being slender? Ladies look better a when they’re a bit heavier.”

I couldn’t believe what my boyfriend said. It’s like he prefer me unhealthy and fit than when I was when I was healthy and fit. He said I can do what I want but don’t expect him to like it. The thing is he’s fit and very athletic. He’s 5’8”. It seems like a lot of fit guys love out of shape or chubby ladies. Not all of them do. Sorry if I’m stereotyping. I thought guys loved healthy looking women. Don’t get me wrong I love my curves but being healthy is important. I’m lucky to have a boyfriend that loves me no matter what size but he seems to love my bigger body better.

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  • you lack petspective. you only see it as him liking chunkier instead of the more likely reality of growing together bonds you deeper.

    this is a part of todayxs problem of people wanting the end result at the beginning. (since you started this with weight) many women get bitter that more men fo not find them as attractive but they see plenty of heavier women with a good man, not taking into consideration that they grew (possibly in physical size) together over a long period of time and that she was not always that size. inversely trying to seek that end result at the start causes the other to not want that same end result at all, ever.

    • So what the hell are you trying to say? That I don’t appreciate my man finding me more attractive because I’m heavier? Look I do appreciate my boyfriend finding me attractive and I love him but my health is important.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Get the stereotypes out of your mind of skinny is beautiful. He loves you for you , if not move on. Get to were you want to be and he will still love you as long as you're happy with your self. Curve's are wonderful but it sucks for the guy if you're unhappy in your own skin. This is from a person people would now call a chubby chaser. After 37 years and 4 kids and being through all body sizes I wouldn't change a thing. Every stretch mark and pound we went through together. Be happy in yourself screw what others think.

Most Helpful Girls

  • a lot of men like women a little curvy it's more womanly instead of masculine. I've known my man since he was a scrony little thing and now he's gained weight n he doesn't like it but I absolutely love it. I love everything that's gotten bigger and jiggly. He wants to work out and I'm all for it cause it'll make him happy but I could care less about how fit he is currently.

    • Also when people tend to be happy in their relationships they gain some weight so it's normal

    • I guess people love it when their partners get fat right? My best friend loves her mans dad bod since they got together and he gained 30 pounds. He hates it but she finds it sexy..

    • Yes most people love it

  • He might love you more knowing him for longer!

    How ever really he might have a chunky love instead of you skinny he might love you fat!

    Some guys love those girls pregnant and fat then skinny!

    Know many relationships that went the other way after gaining wight

    • Well I’m not pregnant. I’m 24 and I’m not trying to have a baby. Since when is FAT trendy? It’s my body not his

    • Not trendy but just loveable soft and he can love playing with your skin

    • Okay but I do miss my fit body

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  • I definitely prefer a plump woman over a more slender one.

    • That’s cool. Most men like plump women nowadays. I don’t like being one. Would you dump a woman that went from plump to slender? Be honest

  • Yes, once in state of Love we are more adaptable to wide range of physique..

    Just don't go obese, it's about what's medically healthy..

  • Good for you in wanting to look a bit more toned. Just be glad he still loves you the way you are. How is your sex life with him?

  • You'd have to wonder why you put on weight though.

    Generally, it's because we tend to let ourselves go, when we get with someone, because we think "that's it, I've got what I came for", right?

    • Yeah I guess. I found an amazing guy and I don’t feel need to attract a man because I have an amazing boyfriend but it’s sad that I stopped working out and eating more junk. My doctor got after me for gaining 52 pounds!

    • Yeah, cause your hearts gonna start overworking, you need to realize he will leave you

    • I know and I’ve explained it to him too, so I need to get in shape and fit

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  • Seems to me that, he loves you regardless of your figure as opposed to being attracted to you as thin or chunky. Sounds like a keeper.

    • Yes and I’m very blessed. A lot of men seems to like heavy women.

  • Well then you should be proud of that because he is loving everything he is seeing and you and at least he is showing it in a sexual way.
    God Bless

  • Good on him.

    • What’s that suppose to mean?

    • That he appears to love you?

    • Well yes he loves me and I’m so blessed that he does

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  • It might just be his way of making you feel better about your weight. If he is a good guy, he will love you no matter what weight you are at. The only person that can change is you. Get to a weight that makes you happy. It does not matter what anyone else thinks or says.

  • He has a sickness for the thickness

    • Well there’s nothing wrong with that but getting unfit is unhealthy.

  • Normal as in common? No. But its a good thing.

    Most girls get fatter as they age, so having a guy that likes it is a plus.

  • Stop complaining just be happy

    • Not until my body is fit again

  • yes why not personal choice.

  • He isn’t like most men, maybe he has a fat fetish? Most guys want a healthy in shape girlfriend

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