My boyfriend and my bestfriend were friends with benifits.. what do I do now?

for 2 weeks now behind my back- she shared multiple nudes and he shared 1 pic of his dick

she forced him into fingering her while i was on a vacation and she loved it what do i do-

i love my boyfriend a lot-

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  • I know you are young, but what are you thinking with that last line in your detail part of the question?

    "i love my boyfriend a lot-"

    How? Because he cheated on you? Betrayed you? That is love to you? I am afraid you are in for a long and hard lesson. You let this go, he will keep doing it because he knows that he can.

    You need to break up with him immediately. Your friend didn't force him to do anything. They cheated together. The sooner you see that, the sooner you will realize he is worthless.

    Not to mention your best friend betraying you. Do you still consider her a best friend? If not, how can you consider him a boyfriend and not an ex? That is crazy if you can't see this.

    He is not going to change. Plus, look at the age here. Yes, I know kids are experimenting and younger ages now. That isn't who you want to be though. You want to focus on important things in your life like family or friends. Schooling should be a top priority. This guy is only going to drag you down.

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  • I’d be looking for a better boyfriend and a better bestie. You can definitely do better.

    Also, she forced him to finger her? Apart from the betrayal, your boyfriend obviously thinks you’re brain dead, which you’d have to be to believe he was forced.

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  • “she forced him into fingering her”

    Get your hand up there right now! Right now! No goddamnit just start with one finger! Look at me while you’re fingering me you maggot I said LOOK AT ME!”

    Did it go something like that?

  • She did not force him! He was very willing. You should not put up with that crap. And you are too young to get caught up in that crap. Move on to a guy that really cares for you. And ditch the phony BFF.

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  • I would be out of there.

  • He is cheating on you so I would dump his ass. He is not going to change cause he is a horny teen boy. Your best friend does not sound like a best friend to me!

  • forced him into fingering her? 🤔

  • Well they was friends with benefits so what did you expect? are you okay with polyamory?

  • They maybe fucking too, you just ain't find out yet.

  • You shit can both of them and move on with your life.

  • she forced him into fingering her? ok that is a huge huge lie. Move on. They do not deserve you. He is an asshole and she is a bitch.

  • He cheated on you. They shared nudes and he fingered her. You need to break up with him.

    • And dump her as a friend too

  • She didn't force him he cheated on you and by the sounds of it she is a shit friend drop both of them out your life

  • You can't force him into fingering her. Find a new boyfriend and a new friend

  • Your boyfriend is cheating on you with your friend... why are you still with him and friends with her? Those two are assholes

  • Break up with your unfaithful boyfriend and unfriend that bimbo whore

  • Ditch em both

  • How can a woman force someone else to finger her? There's no way. If he said he forced her, then he's lying. If you don't want to share him (I suggest don't) then dump him. Apparently the deep feelings are one sided.

  • Dump him and find someone way better. Don’t put up with that crap.

  • She didn’t force him. is a jack ass and she’s not your friend

  • And you are only 14? Wait a couple of more years for any type of boyfriend!

  • How does a girl force a guy to finger her?

  • A) she did not force him
    B) dump them both, one is a cheater, the other one is a bad friend

  • Have a three some

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