My boyfriend never asks for my nudes but he jerks off to women on 4chan, should I be concerned?

my boyfriend and i have pretty good sex life and we live together. But I often wonder why he never asks for my nudes , he’d rather look at pictures of women on 4chan than ask me for one. Should I be concerned with this?

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  • It is just novelty thing. He's sees your body on a regular basis, so having nudes of you, when you can see the real thing is kind of redundant.

    He knows he can't see these other girls other than online. As long as he keeps it to online, you don't have a problem. Unless, he visits the site more than he does you, then it becomes a concern.

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  • I see it like this. When he beats it its more of a a dirty undertone. He doesn't want you to be shaded in that like. Sex is different than jerking. Sex is pleasure for 2 well for guys jerking is a way to release buildup. If you 2 are doing the dirty constantly then why would he need your nudes.

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  • Tf is 4chan and he seems to be lusting, cause he has a girl next to him and he rather wack his shit, some people just need special help, porn addiction most likely from the sound of it.

  • How do you know this? Does he show you?

  • No. Its normal.

  • Yes. He's not as into you as you deserve if he does that.

  • Nah, don't be worried. I never ask for nudes either. It's just a bad idea.

  • 🤔 I was under the impression that we weren't supposed to ask for nudes, and that the girl would share 'em if they wanted to. Maybe that's why?

    I'm weak and would probably ask anyway, but nevermind that.

  • Yes definitely.

  • I would ask him why and also why he does not want your nude pics ,, for sure do ask.. its the only way you will find out.

  • Because he's seeing you naked in real life

  • It's not concerning he looks at other women when he masturbates, it's concerning he goes to 4chan rather then like porn hub

  • just another woman who knows how to pick the best man possible.

    • I’m confused, are you saying i picked the best man possible or I’m picking on him despite him being perfect 😭

  • If it will make you feel better, you can send me nudes.

  • Men like variety and that is how he gets it.

  • How do you know he does this, does he tell you, does he do it in front of you

    My theory is he doesn't ask you because he has the real you and he doesn't want to be a perv boyfriend by asking such a question

  • What's the concern?

  • You have a really good choice in men! Not lol

    • Why’s that?

    • You know he is looking at other women but you are still good with it? I don’t get why women love these type of men but not the sweet loyal ones.

    • Most men jerk off to porn though, so do women which is why I like to look over it. And I’m not saying he’s not loyal , I’m his first girlfriend while I’ve dated a few men before him. He is infact the kind who would seem sweet and loyal. I’m just concerned why he’d never ask for my pictures , when I asked him why he said he has me and he prefers the real me than the picture but it doesn’t help with me feeling insecure.

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  • Yes definitely... he might be bored of you

  • take it easy if he do with you enough.

  • I guess cause he’s already seen you and likes variety and seeing others for his fantasy during masturbation

  • Maybe he's just getting himself off but actually loves you and wants to make love with you not just get off.