My Boyfriend not aroused for vaginal sex. Why?

He is not gay. So don't write this in your answer.

He enjoys making out with me, he sucks my vagina passionately, he loves foreplay but he is not enthusiast for penetrative sex. He doesn't feel urge to enter his dick into me. Why so? Is ot because of low libido? Or he is anxious about performance?
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  • Maybe he just struggles to get off through penetration. There is this notion that all guys cum in seconds through penetration but it's untrue. For some of us it just fails to deliver a lot of the time. It's not enough stimulation, not aggressive enough, not tight enough, whatever.

    • That maybe true, but you still want to drive your cock into her pussy, don't you? She can finish you with a BJ. Am I wrong?

  • If he's already doing all of that, I don't think it would be low libido. What about you though? Are returning the favor orally? Maybe you need to sit down and talk to him about why he doesn't want to penetrate you. Find out why. How many times have you guys messed around?

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  • Sounds like something else is the cuase maybe you need to squeeze him more while inside of you. Maybe more positions or he just prefers pleasuring you more then himself.

    Ok throw out any omg worried and say what you think it might be. Off hand

    • Im thinking he's into pegging lol

    • @BagoH You are probably right. Pegging = Gay.

  • It sounds more like he doesn't want to get you pregnant to me.

    He wants to pleasure you in all other ways :)

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  • It sounds like he is very attracted to you! Perhaps it is the fear of pregnancy?

  • proabby does not like pussy

  • Maybe he's tiny or has erectile dysfunction.
    You can get answers by giving him a floor slapping blowjob.

    • There ya go, she should suck his cock dry. Of course he is probably pretending a guy is sucking his cock.

    • @KrakenAttackin no no no. Just came from my urologist. ED is caused by diabetes, high blood pressure and porn addiction in that order straight from my Drs mouth. At his age you can pretty much rule out the first two. The only other possibility is he’s a closet queen

    • @KrakenAttackin Sorry not meant for you but meant for@Dargil

  • You’re in denial. He’s a fag

  • Sounds like performance anxiety.

  • He's not excited about entering your vagana then. Try giving him a bob job and see if that works for him. If not then get him checked at a doctor. I

    • Bob job? Or blow

    • Blowjob he enjoys

    • I was using meme terms haha boob job i meant. Like using the boobs to stroke the cucumber.

  • If he doesn’t have the instinct to plant it in you, then he can’t be straight. Even if he was concerned about knocking you up, he couldn’t fight the instinct always if he was straight.

  • It can be either. But only you can find out what is it. Talk to him. Ask him what's the problem. And if he can't speak to you about it then get professional help like councelling.

  • What does he say about it?

  • He could be scared, or worried!
    Maybe He thinks his penis is too big for your little vagina!
    Or, maybe worried about bleeding, or tearing something!
    He could be frightened by the idea of accidentally inseminating you!
    Or, He knows penetrative Sex concludes a loss of Virginity...
    There are many reasons! If you want the actual truth, feel free to ask Him!

  • Does he get hard?

    I am suspect of any man who doesn't want to penetrate a woman, I bet he is gay. Not saying this to offend, but every man wants to drive his cock deep into a woman's vagina.

  • No guy want to kiss and eat pussy and not fuck. Something isn't right maybe he's intimidated by you or he's nervous or he's got some erectile issues

  • Are either of you using birth control?

  • what type of sex arouse him then?

  • Shitty or stinky pussy maybe

    • He wouldn't be going down on her than.

  • Is he hard?

  • Must be the anxious part or something. That's a hard one.

  • Getting hard on at the own will is skill which only few people have. Try to arouse him, use your mouth and hands. Give him some time he will get the erection.

    • Fuck, at their age my cock got hard that the drop of a hat! My cock still gets hard pretty damn quickly. I think this guy is fucked up and doesn't like pussy.

    • @KrakenAttackin yeah I just get erection just by holding a women's hand. There is nothing better than being inside a women

    • @KrakenAttackin I think he has erection dysfunction

  • Nice answer

  • Couldn't care less if your boyfriend is horny or not. Why should I?

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