Guys, My boyfriend only cums once?

I've been dating this guy for about a month and every time we have sex he finishes in about 2 minutes no matter what position and then the sex is over. We never use a condom either because Im on birth control and were dating, but why won't he go multiple rounds? It makes me feel like he's unattracted to me or something. Is this uncommon?
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  • most guys are unable to go more than once. it usually takes us a little while to recharge so to speak. sure some guys recharge quicker, and some can come multiple times during sex. I've come twice during one session before, but it doesn't happen very often at all.

    the main problem seems to be that he only lasts 2 mins and isn't satisfying you. you need to figure out ways of making him last longer.

    I tend to pull out if i know im going to come, and give her oral until I've calmed down a little. I can last as long as she needs this way.

  • I can go only once. I think it is more rare for a guy to go multiple times in one session. If he was unattractive to you, he wouldn't even stay hard! If you want longer sex I suggest more foreplay and have him go down on you until you orgasm, that way it won't matter as much if he cums quickly.

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  • Going multiple rounds isn't always standard. You can"save up"if you really want him to go multiple rounds. Instead, he should really be focusing on learning how to last longer. 2 minutes is nothing!! You'll never get an orgasm in 2 minutes.

  • Girl, thats common. A lot of men immediately lose the desire for sex after ejaculation. If they are still horny, they won't even be able to cum for a while.

  • Maybe he's attracted so much to you that he can't hold in his cum

  • He probably still likes you, and he just simply isn't crazed about having sex

  • sounds like you ain't going with the right guy but hey that's my opinon

  • My girlfriend & I have been together for six years & I can cum more than once, but she only cums once & then she's done. So I understand, but I love her so I'm not worried about it. If she's happy, I'm happy. Plus it's all about her pleasure over mine anyway. Lol.