My boyfriend only says "I love you" after sex?

[Anonymous]

I say I love you randomly or when I just feel like saying it, there's times u know. But he only says it after we have sex sometimes and it does make me think.

[Trooper205]

Ooohhh... That, for me, is a bit of a Red flag...
If He'll ONLY say it during or after "playtime", but NEVER anytime else, I'm afraid He might only appreciate you or love you for the Sex.
DON'T QUOTE ME ON THIS. I'm only assuming. (I shouldn't do that)
If you want the real truth, you can ask Him, but be cautious... He could be a liar.
Be careful! Good luck to you!

[4eyes2mouths]

I rarely say I love you to my girlfriend. I rarely talk about my feelings and emotions. She knows how I am and she knows I do everything for her but sometimes I don't even think about it. Because I'm thinking about 100 other things. But after sex it's a clear state of mind. Reminding myself that I do really love her. So I normally say it then.

[Dargil]

Because he's grateful and that is how he says it. Maybe he actually does and the afterglow is the only time he can let it out.

[noxius]

Not sure if this counts as advixe rather than an opinion. But that doesn't sound right to me. I tell my girlfriend i love her all the time, just doing it after sex makes it feel more like someone is using you.

Does he at least say it back when you say i love you to him? Otherwise id say thats a massive red flag.

[Asker]

Yh I says it when I say I love him and he texts it to me but words mean more

[noxius]

It does. In my honest experience and opinion id say that you should start finding someone else. Why? Because you are here asking about this and its obviously making you feel something thats most likely not positive? Worry? And i imagine if he only says i love you after sex asking him why he does that will lead nowhere Really not a good sign that he does that and never says it back to you on random with the initiative. Ofcourse you know your boyfriend better than i do, so dont take this as a direct course of action unless you thknk it through first.

[Noahsub]

Tell him that... He is probably not very emotionally driven and sex brings it out of him.
But more likely he loves you but he is just stupid.

[Pejtu]

Red flag if he says that only after sex
Really red flag

[mrwhite333]

That's interesting. Perhaps he has a hard time saying it, or wasn't used to hearing it. Maybe after being intimate is when he feels the most secure in his emotions and is able to verbalize it.