My boyfriend pinned me down and shaved my head. I don't know what to do?

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So basically me and my boyfriend had a fight. We were arguing for ages and shouting at each other. I then got mad and went to bed. He then jumps on top of me pinning me down. He then used his other hand to use the shaver and started to shave my head. He's so much stronger and bigger than me so I couldn't get away. In the end he totally shave all my hair off and now I'm bald. I then left my house crying and went to my sisters house and I haven't left since. I haven't told my parents and I haven't been to work. I don't know what to do. Will my job fire me? What would my parents do. Do I break up with him. I haven't spoken to him since

Vehii · Answer

You should leave him and go to the police. This is assault and you can sue him for cutting your hair without your consent. The elements of aussault are:
intentional use of force against another (force defined broadly), contact resulting in harmful, offensive, or sexual contact; and non-consensual contact.

nativepride73 · Answer

That is assault and call the cops. That bastard should be in jail. Secondly, your work should be understanding in this case, you were assaulted if they fire you then they are in the wrong and you should be due compensation. Oh, and yes you absolutely break up with him. He is a complete violent psycho.

Beautifiedgirl123 · Answer

File a complaint against him

JinJune · Answer

You should absolutely break up with him. I'm sure everyone will understand if you tell them what happened. If you're too worried, maybe get a wig? But most jobs that respect their employees will understand, so don't be too stressed out.

Prof_Don · Answer

Call the cops and get that asshole arrested... and obviously break up with him.

Anpu23 · Answer

Yes, break up with him, no your job can't fire you (in the US) for shaving your head. Call your boss first and explain what happened to soften the shock. And hair grows.

MisterWhiskey · Answer

That's physical assault he could even get jail time for that, please break up with him the abuse will get even worse if you stay. I'm so sorry this happened to you, please call the police and your mother.

Dandeus · Answer

Call the police and ball up with him.

SamuelB · Answer

Do you break up with him? He assaulted you and you have to ask this? You should call the police.

Tarvold · Answer

That's assault. Call the cops. Get some paperwork done. Your work can't fire you for being the victim of assault (if they do, then you can sue/create bad PR).

jjmarvin · Answer

That's almost as bad as if he beat you up and held you down. Assault charges?

Ihav2fart · Answer

break the fuck up with him... he's crazy...

RationalMale · Answer

Your job will still require you to come in to keep your job...  And seriously, why would you not break up with someone who did something that rotten?

takumii · Answer

File a police complaint against him, Wear a scarf on your head at work.

random_cypriot · Answer

brake up with that bastard or else call the cops!!

Jackblue · Answer

Go to the police, hopefully once your boss knows of your situation they will not fire you.

CoffeeQueen · Answer

That's a red flag right there. That is called assault and it's not fokkin okay. Call the police and get out of that relationship. That is unacceptable on so many levels, and should not happen.