My boyfriend plans to try a love doll recently, I think it's werid. Any reason to persuade him not to get one?

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  • Well in theory you COULD ask him to tell you what it is that he wants to DO to the love-doll.
    But don't formulate the question like "What is it that you want to do a love doll that you can't do to me?"
    This will maybe give him a guilt-trip and cause him to shut down.
    But if instead you show true curiousity, you could ask him to let you fantasize with him about what he'd love to do to that doll.

    If you think you can let him do with you, whatever he wanted to do with that doll, well, try to live out that fantasy.

    Usually sex should trigger a binding hormone called Oxytocin.
    By him having sex with a doll will disrupt this process. I have no idea what that will do with you guys since I'm not a psychologist. I'm just pointing out facts.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Imma be honest, there's clearly something that he want's out of sex that he's not getting. This doesn't necessarily mean he HAS to get what he wants. But if you don't want him to get one, you should just be straight up and ask how you can satiate that desire instead of a doll. And then, if you're not willing to do that then maybe the doll it is. If he ends up getting the doll and then it effects your sex life, then you're gonna have to make that clear. And overall if at the end of the day, you just can't handle it, then obviously you're gonna have to end it.

    Ultimately, the answer when it comes to sex is ALWAYS communication. But people always get caught up in fears or being close minded etc which leads to people looking for what they want elsewhere.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i think it would be one thing to try one, like i would like to try a Sybian machine one time, but to buy one when you have a girlfriend seems kinda weird

    • @rachel776 I buy a ticket to see you on the Sybian lol 😆

  • I'd be miffed. It's like you are not doing what he likes from you. How pathetic.

    • hahaha Thanks. x

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  • Maybe he's curious, lol. There may be times when you're not going to be around, like go out of town, maybe he wants one, so he won't feel lonely when you're not there. I talk to my stuffed bear when I'm alone. (Hey, no one knows me here, lol).

    There might even be some things he wants to try with you that he's too embarrassed too, so that's where the doll comes in. I'm sure there's some reason.

  • Yes, get a life and stop trolling with this bull shit,

    • Some people have no life…

  • It being weird is a good enough reason.

  • Yeah. You can’t control him. But you can say you’re gonna leave if he gets one

  • This man downgrading? I don't understand 😐

  • Why would he get a love doll when he has you?

  • Offer to be his love doll?

  • If you are responsive to him sexually, I see no reason.

  • If he is willing to spend over a grand to have sex with silicone and then have to clean it after, either he doesn't want kids and neither of you are willing to get "fixed", or he wants to do sex acts that you won't do, or both. The only way to persuade him to not buy one, is to ask him what he's gonna do with it, then make it clear to him that he can do that with you.

  • You can fulfill his sexual needs, that's the only thing woman can do, if you're not doing that, why should he stay with you?

  • Just ask him why he wants one and talk about it.. are you two sharing sex or just kissing ,, that may be a reason why he is thinking of getting one.. so just ask see where that takes you.. good luck

  • It’s probably for you

  • Cheated on by a love doll, weird flex

  • I can't think of any

  • Yeah if he doesn’t think you’re enough tell him to get lost.

  • Why a doll when he has a real live warm wet pussy next to him he can stick his dick in anytime he wants?

    • Because he doesn’t have a real live warm wet pussy he can get anytime he wants, lol.

    • @gorydetails maybe true. I don’t know any guy that would prefer a doll over the real thing

  • It means, that your performance in bed is not good, you cannot satisfy and provide full pleasure to your boyfriend in bed, Give him full satisfaction, he will not use sex doll

  • Either a live doll or a real one lol

  • Women Use Vibrators, Dildos And Many Other Toys Whether Alone Or In A Relationship, No One Ever Seems To Care… Guy Uses A Sex Doll Or A Sex Toy And It Is Frowned Upon…

    Another Double Edged Sword By A Hypocrite

    • A vibrator is not the same as a love doll lmao, if he was just getting a flashlight I doubt it would be a problem but having sex with a full human sized doll is weirdo shit regardless of what gender you are

  • Why would he need a love doll if he has you?

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