My boyfriend punched me :'( and called me a dumb slut what should I do?

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Can I remove this question? Its my fault why he hit me.
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  • first assess yourself.. what would you have done under hte same situation if you were him. then.. thin about it.. what did you do to elicite such a response from him.. ok.. your sure you didn't deserve it.. then you dump his ass and find someone who respects you. cherishes you.. and wants to see you happy and smiling not crying.. but really self asess.. this guy must have once been nice for you to get inthe relatiohship.. dont waste a faiuled realtionship by blamintg someone else leaving you unchanged to once again enter a realtionship no better prepared than you were the last time. that said men should not hit women.. 1 it proves they are stupid really really stupid.. 2 its not a fair fight.. even if some shrews tying to kill you dserved to be knocked out.. run fella run.. but NEVER hit a woman.. YOU LOSE!!!

  • Don't put up with that.

    (unless you are into that... but it doesn't sound like you are)

    There is no good excuse to be violent or demeaning toward someone else. If you did something bad to him to make him angry, you apologize.

    Don't say "I'm sorry" (this term degrades you)
    Say "I apologize"

    He should apologize for hitting you and demeaning you.
    If he doesn't, you should most likely drop him like a bad habit.

Most Helpful Girls

  • run for the fucking hills !! Do not tolerate this at all. I know it can be hard to leave abusive relationships but just ask yourself this, would you like to spend the rest of your life or an other second of the day with someone who does not love you, respect you or want to care for you? Would you someday want to have a child with this human? Would you want your child to tolerate this from their partner/ even the abusive father? A real lover would want to protect you at all costs and never even think about laying a hand on you. No one deserves that treatment.

  • If he hit you once, he will keep doing it... he will always have a reason and excuse. Since he is young (I assume), call the cops. He can get forced into counseling to hopefully get his head right. Would be good for you too... so you dont ever attract guys like that.

    • I can't do that i have a his with him :/ and like he said it was my fault for not making him food good enough for his liking

    • Since you dont want to, then just know he will keep doing it. Like I said, he will always have a reason, some excuse and in his messed up mind, it will be justified. I don't mean to sound like a bitch, but you are agreeing to be his punching bag. He has no respect for you and it will only get worse. Just imagine how it will be if you have kids...

    • I do have a kid :/ and it's fine he promised he wouldn't do it again

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  • No you can't. You could write to the site (via the Contact Us drop-down menu) and ask them to remove it for you.

    And IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT

  • report him to the police and break up with him

  • Call the police!

    • There's never a reason for him to hit you out of anger. Don't you dare apologize or take this question down!!

  • Go make a police report and also get a protection order

  • Sue him and break up

    • It doesn't matter if you did something wrong, HE SHOULD NEVER HIT YOU, VIOLENCE IS WROMG AND NEVER THE ANSWER

  • Make him your arrested, ex boyfriend right now.

  • Wait until he's asleep then superglue his penis and asshole shut.

  • Break up with him and don't talk to him anymore at the very least. You could also consider pressing charges for the physical violence.

  • Leave him immediately if u can. If he does it once believe me he will do it again.

  • Break up with him now.

  • Leave him. Duh.

    • Fucking leave him!

  • Offer him a blowjob and when he's not expecting it bite down hard. Then say "who's the dumb slut now" but remember don't speak with your mouth full that would be rude...









    Joking. Truthfully you want to report him to the police for assault assuming he punched you proper hard and that name calling between you isn't a norm (e. g. bdsm)

  • Find a new boyfriend

  • Leave him. He doesn't know how to treat a woman, and he is likely an emotional and physical abuser, and will likely never change. Dump his ass, and don't believe his bullshit when he apologizes, bc he likely will never change.

  • Dump his butt. Any guy who hits a girl isn't worth a damn penny. And your update?,? It's your fault? The fu... no matter what a girl does it's not a reason for a guy to be violent. Dump him. Put your stuff in the trunk, put it in d, step on the gas and don't look back.

  • I can take being called a dumb slut as I've been called it and worse! But getting a punch NO WAY would I be sticking around.

  • Stop seeing him.

  • Dump his ass duh


    If you stay with him then u really are dump

  • A) that sounds like physical abuse.

    B) if it is, then get away from him, so you aren't in danger.
    C) report that to the police.

  • Break up.

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