My boyfriend Rejected me mid blowjob? Won't tell me what happened?

Question

We were home alone so we started making out, as we usually do, everything was great. Later he went down on me for the first time ever, and obviously I wanted to do the same. So, after a while, I start going down on him, for the first time ever, I had never done it before. I was careful to not scrape him with my teeth or anything, but in less than a minute he moves away and I ask him what's wrong, he says he doesn't know and begins kissing and touching me again... After a while I asked him agaim what had happened before and he just tells me it had nothing to do with me, it was just his body not responding well or something like that, kinda evasive. But, when we were going at it, I think he did have an erection? So? I was confused, I am
no master at this but it seemed weird. What do you think? I think he is lying and something about me or how I did it was wrong...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

a few possibilities here.. either he was close to orgasm after a short time and didn't want to tell you. or he wasn't getting fully erect. which isn't your fault. it has happened to me where im too busy thinking that i forget to enjoy the moment. "is she enjoying it or is she just doing it for my pleasure" "if i dont get harder soon she will think i dont like it" etc. all these thoughts then ur dick gets soft and she thinks its her fault lol. try again and maybe try spicing it up for him a bit. show him you are really into it. try talking a bit dirty and boosting his confidence "you dick is so big" "yea fuck me in the mouth" those kinda things will bring him out of his mind and back to whats actually happening. another thing to keep in mind is dont be TOO gentle. lol a lot of girls make the mistake of being too soft thinking they might hurt him. . dont be afraid to sqeeze it and smack it around a bit. play with his balls (sorry for the explcit description here but this is the sexual activity thread HAHA) be a bit of a freak you know? guys like that more than u think ;) good luck

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

I think he was a little nervous and he was not getting the erection he was hoping to happen. So, he is embarrassed and feels like he failed, which he does not want to do with you. Best to try again, and maybe he will not be so nervous as he gets used to the situation and you. Good luck.

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can really do but talk to him about it. He's the only one who knows what happened. So talk to him! Let him know that you care about him so you want to figure things out, and you want to know what happened and how he feels.

Edymemelord · Accepted Answer

You probably scratched him.
Unless he has like some sort of PTSD like something ugly from his childhood or time growing up I'm not sure what else could spur that up.
Maybe he didn't want you doing that just yet. c:

anaspie · Accepted Answer

You think he had an erection? Girl if you dont know what an erection is then your not quite ready for sex. Some men don't like getting BJ's , it happens.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

He was either close to climaxing and didn't want to or being the first time it felt kinda weird to him and he wanted to stop. I doubt you did anything wrong.

Tyrael · Answer

Going to take a guess and say he was probably close to orgasm and didn't want to cum so soon as he'd be embarrassed.

littleheartbigbooty · Answer

Maybe he was nervous or he didn't like it, but didn't want to hurt your feelings

soschris · Answer

He was maybe turning off. Sorry. But for some guys no blowjob is better than a bad one. Some guys are fickle about what they want. You may have to talk about this, maybe next time you're 'down there' to know specifically how he likes it or if he likes it at all, not all guys do. (OK most of us do)

JosefK · Answer

... id say he was holding back on a big fart. ..

Lithium65 · Answer

he was likely just nervous and insecure.

Cartoonfish863 · Answer

Yeah it sounds like he was close to climaxing after only a short time and felt embarrassed. It's happened to me before and it is embarrassing

kraken602 · Answer

since we don't know your boyfriend. maybe just drop it and try it again later maybe. after a couple drinks.

LastNightmare · Answer

may be he got distracted by something or someone

Glen68 · Answer

so what do you mean you think he had an erection?

Dantheman101 · Answer

I think he was close to cumming

ReggieM · Answer

He was probably just so excited about it he was probably going to pee, it'd be embarrasing if he peed on your face so that's why he acted like that. It's just a speculation but things like this happen

Anonymous · Answer

I would say he was on the verge of orgasming, but didn't want to so soon because he would be embarrassed. It could be that he wasn't that turned on (which I doubt since you guys are under 18), but perhaps you should just ask him about it and be up front