My boyfriend said he fantasizes about me and my best friend fuvkjng. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

We are all really good friends and she hangs out with us a lot. A lot of the times people mistake her for being my sister or even my twin. We have known for 16 years now so we’ve picked up the same habits and characteristics. We also have like a telepathy.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 years and we have a very solid relationship. My best friend and boyfriend are both extremely flirty people so they flirt with each other a lot and they have always joked about a threesome. She also flirts with me a lot. Actually she flirts with me more than she flirts with him. She’s straight by the way. Her boyfriend is my boyfriend’s best friend. I am straight too, but I’ve been thinking about what my boyfriend said and I’m confused. Was he talking about a threesome? Foursome? Or just watching me and my best friend fuck? How do I mention this to her? I know she is flirty and playful, but I’m sure she was just joking around not being serious. What about her boyfriend? Can I have sex with my best friend or will things become awkward? Has anyone ever experienced something like this before? What happened and what did you do?

[Twalli]

He may want a threesome or foursome. Ask what he's looking for out of it. If you want to try it once you know what he wants ask your friend about her views on it happening like "have you ever considered having sex with me?" or whatever he's looking for. You probably shouldn't ask straight out if she wants to do it, just ask if she's ever thought about it.
FYI, chances are her boyfriend will hear about it if your boyfriend is looking for a threesome and may want one where he's #3, are you willing if that happens?

[Asker]

I don't think I would be able to have sex with another man, and I doubt her boyfriend would like her to be with another man. I guess if we do this it would be a 4some.

[Twalli]

If it's a foursome the supposition is he'll fuck her and you'll fuck her boyfriend. Otherwise it's just too couples fucking in the same room.

[Asker]

me and her could fick and i can blow his best friend. we would have to talk about it.

[Asker]

fuck not fick

[Twalli]

That may be enough. On the other hand he nay just want to watch you and her fuck. If you really look similar, you can bet he find her attractive too. Granted he may find her attractive even if you don't. My girlfriend and rush don't look at all similar.

[Asker]

I would be fine with that. his wish is my command lol. We do look very similar, but I'm more on the cute shy puppy side and she is sexy, elegant, and sensual. He does find her attractive and so do I.

[Th3ft]

I know I have heard of this going really smoothly and in those situations it is usually the girls being girlfriends and then the guys both get to get pulled in on a cation and sometimes even pull them in at the same time… but it really all boils down to your gut level reactions to each other wether you should engage in this! I mean again it would most likely be just a you two thing and then whatever happens happens. So if you both enjoy each other and are willing to tease it out then go for it. But you do have to think about you guys how they both will react how you want them both to react.

just make sure you are being real with yourself.

[dustybiker]

Are you ready to risk the relationship ending? People rarely think of the possible end results.

[Asker]

Why would the relationship end?

[dustybiker]

I guess you would find out for yourself.

[Asker]

We are way too close for our relationships to ever end.

[jshm2]

You do nothing, but tell him "it's over," if he brings that up again.

Know your boundaries, and don't cross them. Keep friends as friends.

[Asker]

why do you say that?

[20yearsolder]

Just because he has a fantasy does not require you to fulfill it. You'll ruin your friendships. Don't do it. He can keep fantasizing.

[Asker]

but i want to make him happy and his birthday is coming up.

[bowenw]

I suggest asking him to explain what he has in mind, then have him ask his friend about it first.

[bean2k21]

[humanearth]

If you do this, you may lose a boyfriend and a best friend

Think really hard what's at risk.

[Asker]

Why would I lose them?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe he wants to see you and her engage in lesbian sex really hard to say.

[FilmGuy93]

You probably ought to be talking with your boyfriend and friend about this stuff.

[stargazeraug1989]

Do you want to have sex with her?

[stargazeraug1989]

? Unsure?

[Asker]

I will do whatever my boyfriend wants. I wouldn't mind it. The worst-case scenario is it sucks and it's something we can all laugh about.

[stargazeraug1989]

Cool

[driven159]

Being friends for so long if she would have thought of having sex with you, she would have already tried too so it is not what she wants and if you did have sex might ruin your friendship and mess up your relationship with your boyfriend too and her boyfriend too, but you all need to talk it over if you want it to happen and make sure there are no side affects after

[Asker]

We have kissed before. She loves sitting on my lap. she has sat on my lap and nibbled and sucked on my ear. she has nibbled on my neck before. We have showered together, just showered nothing else. I don't know if she has ever thought about it seriously, but she has joked about it before. Why does everyone keep saying that it might ruin our relationships?

[driven159]

because that is what happens a lot that is why I said to make sure all of you understand it before you do anything because that happens when jealousy and immaturely takes over

[Asker]

We will talk it out before anything happens. I don't think we have anything to worry about. thanks for the advice.

[driven159]

let me know how it goes

[Asker]

haha okay.

[Danger345]

I think the best thing to do is to talk to the both of them and tell them what was said and go from there

[Yellovv]

Are you feeling something to her...

[Asker]

I think she is gorgeous, and I love her with all my heart. She is my soulmate. I only have romantic feelings for my boyfriend.

[Yellovv]

If your boyfriend want you to lick her pussy, are you do that?

[Asker]

i will do whatever my boyfriend wants!

[Yellovv]

That's so hot to see two bestfriend lick each other pussies..

[Asker]

why?

[Yellovv]

Because nice to watch 2 sexy girl naked in same time and play with themselves...

[Anonymous]

I am sure you will enjoy it

[Asker]

have you done something like this before?

[Opinion Owner]

yess

[Asker]

how did things turn out?

[Anonymous]

I think this is just a fantasy he have lot of guys like 3 way and he think that both of you are good looking I guss. I do not think you should do it. Just chat with him about and no one else. You could tell her if you wanted.

[Asker]

Why do you think I shouldn't do it?

[Opinion Owner]

well it may mess up relationship with your friend and your boyfriend

[Asker]

how?