My boyfriend said he isn’t “tall” enough to reach when I got into doggy, is this because his dick is too small to reach?

We did doggy many times before but then I improved my arch. However when having a better arch, he is now saying he’s not tall enough
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  • The distance between a guy's bent knees and his erect penis is a fixed distance. He can lower himself somewhat by spreading his knees further apart, but he can only put them so close together before he falls over, so if the woman is positioning her vagina higher than his penis, then he's simply not going to be able to reach it. It's not very complicated, and it has nothing to do with the length of his dick, but rather the length of his pelvis and thighs.

    Mechanically, men are very limited in the height range and angle range that we can thrust - we only have a few "hinges" (knees, hips, shoulders) that we can pivot to thrust, and this requires that the corresponding hole be in line and at or slightly below the height of the base of his penis, or it's not going to work. And while the man could theoretically put a cushion under his knees to gain more height, that will tend to make him more unstable and make it more difficult to thrust. It is far easier for the woman, whose center of gravity is much lower and who has 4 points of contact, to lower her ass to bring things into alignment, then to expect the guy to grow his thigh length somehow.

    You would have the exact same problem if you were wearing a strap-on - even with a 12" long dildo attached to it - if the hole you were trying to thrust into while wearing your strap-on was higher than your dildo's base. A longer dick/dildo won't solve the problem...

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  • Your bed is probably too high.
    The dick is horizontal, it has no issue reaching the vagina from behind unless he is positioned too low or too high.
    Size of the ass doesn't matter much in that position either.
    As long as he's lined up height wise and you're face down, ass up with your legs spread a bit, he can get it in.

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  • Doing what other people say to do in the bedroom is a recipe for disaster, do your things and dont try to hard, and have fun.

    It's you 2, not you 2 and the world.

  • Sounds like a STEAMING PILE OF BS, to me!! When I am really loving, really wanting to be with a certain lady, I'll do just about anything, and this, like maybe stand up, and a different angel, and maybe hitting your G-spot better than ever!

  • Maybe he’s just short, how tall are you both?

  • It's simple biomechanics, he can only thrust hips at a mostly fixed angle, so the woman needs to raise or lower her position based on his height. Penis size has nothing to do with it

    • The "on all fours" position can be tricky when the heights don't match up well. If there's no easy way around it, you could try lying face down with a pillow under your hips and your legs hanging off the end of the bed, then you can either squeeze legs together for more "tightness", or spread them apart to give him deeper penetration.

  • could be thigh length or dick size. Is this that big an issue for you?

  • Yes probably once i was doing this big ass white skin girl and i was getting reactions From here even though i was not hard i was very drunk.

  • It's his thigh length not cock length genius.

  • No, I’d expect he means on his knees. The dick has to line up with vag hole and I make my wife lie on a pile of pillows.

  • Don’t know, never had that problem.
    My girlfriend likes doggy because my balls slap her clit.

  • He is too small or ur bum is too big! Lol jk

  • I don't know let me see that arch haha

  • Clearly he's got a small dick if he can't fuck you in doggy

  • Get a new boyfriend then lol

  • his dick might be small, have you measured him?

    • It’s not the biggest 😶

    • whats the minimum requirements in inches? lol

    • you can't estimate it in inches or centimetres? is it small for you?

  • I don’t think being tall enough is an issue. Might have something to do with not being wet enough or him being big enough.