My boyfriend said "Some guys trick girls into relationships so they can have sex with them." How do I know my boyfriend is not this way?

A couple days after we became exclusive we started doing oral sex. But he knows I won't do penis-in-vagina sex until I'm engaged/married. He got very physical with me after we became exclusive (slapping my butt, touching my boobs). We also started hanging out at his house a lot instead of going out. How do I know he's not in it for just sex?
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  • "A couple days after we became exclusive" ... how long BEFORE you guys became "exclusive"?

    If you two already dated face to face frequently but without sexual or intimate touching for more than 6 months, then I think he's quite serious about this relationship, especially when he knows you want to save sex until after marriage.

    Otherwise if you just transit from a one month old date, then we can't be sure, especially now he's already all over you.

    • We dated for a month and a half before we became exclusive (nothing sexual). It started after we became exclusive on month 2

    • Want to test him? Limit to only holding hands and hugging. No kissing no touching of intimate parts for the next 6 months. If he waits, then I think he's real. If not, he'll leave after another month.

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  • A guy doesn't want to commit to you if all he wants is sex. But women want sex just as much as men. Are you trying to trick him into a relationship just for sex?

    • We dated for a month and a half before we became exclusive (nothing sexual). It started after we became exclusive on month 2

    • Ok so then there's nothing wrong.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like to me he’s doing exactly that because I don’t think men trick women into relationships so they can have sex with them. That doesn’t make any sense. Most men do not want to commit if they are only looking to have sex. Most men would go and find someone else before they “tricked” one girl into having sex with them

    • I agree. Sex is not always what mens want. Yes, sometime men want sex with their partner to increase bonding. I personally feel, If men have sex with their girl, its because they just want her to be more comfortable, open and loving. But not to trap. Its totally bullshit.

  • You will only when he marries you. Many guys do this trick that he told you.

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  • Do you ever go out in public together?

    • Yes we eat out together

    • How does he treat you in public?

    • We sit together but he doesn't hold my hand

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  • Because he wouldn't of told you that if that's what he was doing

    • Are you saying he's not doing it?

    • I'm say why would he risk telling you that if he's is doing it with you

    • Maybe he wants me think sex is what will keep him around?

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