My boyfriend saw me naked taking a bath? He's been distant ever since?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend saw me naked. My body isn't as attractive as the p*rn stars that he watches. I have small breasts and more of an athletic body. I'm told that I have a very pretty face though. Will my boyfriend find me less attractive now that he's seen me naked and the mystery's gone? Is this why he has been distant?

[alexandraa]

Lol, what?
Your BOYFRIEND saw you naked and you think that's a problem? Did I read the question correctly?
Men do not leave because they saw you naked and the "mystery" is gone. What did you think was going to happen, you and your boyfriend become serious and have sex, and then he leaves?
What did you do when he saw you naked? I'm assuming you got embarrassed and tried to cover yourself up, which would be why he's been distant. He's probably wondering where the relationship is heading. Obviously, I don't know how long you've been together, but he's probably wondering why you are so freaked out by this.

[Yellowbone]

He might be embarrassed that he invaded your privacy.

[islands7]

The thoughts going through his mind are being processed and the outcome is not clear to him.
He doesn't want to present a half baked notion in a clumsy way to you b/c he cares for you.
Think of his naked view event as a great seed bigger than he can swallow and it's making its way down his tiny brain when someday it will grow into a giant tree that he will fell & make a billboard that tells you
a) I love your body and want to ravish you
b) I think "we" should see other people as well = he wants to try some voluptuous sex before choosing you are The One

[heavensgift2girls]

Your body is fine, you don't need to worry about that. If this is the first time he saw you naked, then he may just be embarrassed. Chances are you have were also embarrassed and have been acting different from that time as well, and he could be misreading that as you being upset with him. I believe you are both misreading each other right now. This is why clear communication is so important in relationships.

[CrazyAK]

It should make him more comfortable around you if he's seen you naked before... it because of other reasons

[1932ct]

"Is this why he has been distant? "

how did you react when he saw you embarrassed, cover up scream type reaction or did you invite him to join you type reaction... your reaction probably has more to do with him acting distant then seeing you naked, I means he's your boyfriend he has a pretty good idea of what your going to look like naked

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He shouldn't be so shallow to you and
please don't let him bring you down

[rthomas43]

If he's being distant, it isn't because he saw you naked.

[RBT-RS]

Agreed

[rthomas43]

Correlation does not imply causation.

[Katy16]

Have you talked to him about that? Maybe he was just embarrassed

[jacquesvol]

He's probably been doing some vigorous right hand 'thinking' about you but doesn't want to scare you away by talking about it.

[jacquesvol]

He's hoping you aren't mad at him because he entered your bathroom at a wrong moment.

[DoraLikesSugar]

Throw the bath at him.

[Athleticbroo]

Unless your boobs are smaller than Taylor swift. I dont see a prob

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're just feeling weird or a bit awkward about it, and that might be subconsciously changing your demeanor toward him (e. g. if you're worrying about it in your mind when you see him you won't be as relaxed or may pull back), and his perceived distance is maybe he's subconsciously responding to you being 'awkward' about it.

Guys do not lose attraction because the 'mystery is gone' from seeing you naked the first time.

[Opinion Owner]

He might also be thinking, "hm, she's behaving differently since I saw her, I hope this isn't a problem"

[Anonymous]

Had you had sex before then?

[Asker]

Nope.

[Opinion Owner]

Then he's probably just embarrassed that he found you in that position. Thinks you're embarrassed that he did. Talk to him about it. Number one failure of relationships? Communication!