My boyfriend saw my vagina. :(?

Sooo embarrassed. I just want to die. I know people may see me as childish but no one has ever seen my vagina before and I am self-conscious. I just want to die now :'(
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  • In what context was he treated to the lovely vision of your girl-parts?

    Did he walk in while you were undressed? Did he see you while making out? Wardrobe malfunction? Naughty picture?

    The context or situation should be appropriate for the level of embarrassment. Sit the boy down and tell him something like; "I know you saw me the other day, I' embarrassed. No one, has ever seen that, you're the first!" Let him know he's been treated to privileged information. Let it go at that. The bigger deal you make of it the bigger deal he will!

    You can always say, "you've seen mine, now let's see yours!" Fair is fair, plus it will lighten the situation. Whether he shows you or not he will get a slight hint of how you feel.

  • He's probably really happy about it. That's just how guys are, they like weird stuff like that. Don't freak out about it. One of my dude friends saw my vag on the 4th of July once. I had drunkenly peed on top of my underwear (the only problem with squatting) and I threw them away. I was wearing a wrap skirt and while I was walking a damn wind gust came and there's my vag, out for my friend to see. He just laughed and said ''Finally!" and we went and watched the fireworks. We still talk, he has a girlfriend. It's not anything bad. He's probably seen lots of vaginas, but its yours he wants most. Everything will be ok, promise. :D

  • I'm sure he loved it and his feelings towards you haven't changed at all. If anything maybe seeing you a bit vulnerable has made you closer? I'd share your concerns with him and let him know you feel self-conscious?

    If it makes you feel any better, the first person to ever TOUCH or really SEE that area was the lady who gave me my first Brazilian wax. Awkward.

  • Now that's he's seen it.. he's going to want to see it again.

    I imagine, he also knows you are a little rattled about it.

    Time to take control.. make a game or mission out of showing it to him better..

    He's already seen it.. own how he sees it better.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Thats kind of the objective of a relationship, the eventual seeing the person naked and sex thing. Its not bad and in all probability he is still thinking about it just making a mental picture for himself. Its not a bad thing, well you being embarressed by it is a bad thing, you really shouldn't but him seeing it really isn't. Why are you embarressed? Do you think he will be disgusted by it? Because pretty sure that would not be the case. Are you embarressed because your insecure about it? If so talk to him about it he will probably think its funny that your embarressed and reassure you you have nothing to worry about. What was the situation (it sounds like it was not intentional) and how did he responde?

    • I'm embarrassed because he only been my boyfriend for about 5 weeks. I never done anything. His response was shocked then he apologized, covered his eyes, and walked out my room

    • What happened? Did he accidentally walk in on you changing? His response is reasonable because it was to ease your mind not because he was disgusted (in case you where thinking that) so I would say talk to him and just joke about it and move on, like I said its really not a big deal especially since eventually he is, if you are going to progress in your relationship, going to see it eventually. So now you know he is a respectful guy. Did he say anything afterwards? I mean more recently after you talked later.

    • I know he wasn't disgusted. You asked his response, I told you. My roommate let him in. I guess he didn't know I just got out of shower. I was kinda avoiding him

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  • You boyfriend seeing your vagina would be a huge thrill to him. Try to be a little more confident. Why are you so self conscious about your vagina?

    greatwallofvagina.co.uk/great-wall-vagina-panels

    Here's a piece of art I use to help women with body confidence. It's 400 women who allowed their vaginas to have casts taken. Please take a look and see that you are normal. All vaginas are a thing of beauty and guys desire them so much

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  • You gotta be kidding. Please be kidding.

    • I'm not?

    • Are you a deeply conservative or something? which was the context? If he wants to lick your pussy when you eventually have sex will you deny it to him? What would you think if he reacted that way if you see his penis? I don't know, you seem to be way younger than the age range your profile claims.

    • So because I'm self conscious, I seen younger. Wtf does that have to do with anything? ? There's a lot of women and men that are self conscious dude

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  • So what you're saying is (if I read the other replies correctly) that you're an adult female who's adult male boyfriend saw without pants on?

  • He's like "sweet".

  • It's your boyfriend, I was bound to happen sooner or later.. that's how it works, LOL.

    So you've never been to a OBGYN? You just don't realize probably a dozen people have seen your vagina ( every family/friend that changed your diaper, doctors/nurses in the hospital).

    • Doctors are creepy and I'll never him again anyways. I was a kid who cares, I didn't even know how to be embarrassed. Comparing the two is stupid

  • If thats the case you really need yo see a gynaecologist lol honey

    • I was going to say...

    • Why do i need to see that :/

    • While I totally agree, 90% of the people on here will not understand this. Do we laugh or wonder WTF happened to sexual education?

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  • Well get over it malady I'm sure he won't be the only one your whole life who sees it lol time for them bikini waxes hahaha

    • I dont get bikini waxes and people only saw it when I was little which doesn't caught at all

  • Relax. My male coworker saw my vagina via going through my phone when he shouldn't have.

    Our relationship has not changed a bit, and it's been a few months since it happened.

    Don't stress it.

    • This should be a lot more traumatic then the OP's issue. lol

    • @Betwyn It was traumatic for like 20 minutes and then we resumed as we were lol

    • @Betwyn shut you. You're acting like just because we're together we're supposed to just show our privates. We've only been dating 5 damn weeks, not long enough to see my damn vagina. Talk what you know. I don't go around showing myself my strangers or people I didn't know for long (my bf)

  • It's not that big of a deal, the more you overthink what happened, the more awkward you'll end up acting. Just move on, no harm was done.

  • This is totally the end of the world.

    • For me yeah. I don't need your fucking sarcasm

    • What, were you gonna hide your vagina from him for forever? Are you both asexual?

    • No. He's only been my boyfriend for 5 weeks, that's not appropriate right now. We're just getting to know each other not seeing each other privates

  • Bahahhaha... there will be many more things that will embarrass you probably :) nothing to worry about

  • Take a deep breath. Everything is OK. It's normal for your boyfriend to see your vagina, and I'm sure you made him happy. Can't you enjoy, at least a little bit, that you made him happy?

    • Made him happy? I'm sure he's happy but I am not. We've only known each other 5 weeks so we're basically strangers. I don't show my privates to strangers

    • I understand that. I'm trying to find a positive in this for you.

    • If he is basically a stranger, he should not be your boyfriend. If he really is your boyfriend, he i not a stranger.

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  • Aren't you a bit old to be embarrassed over your boyfriend seeing your naughty bitz?

    • Wow and because I'm 19 I should feel good about showing off my vagina to my 5 week boyfriend. Gtf

    • Its not the end of the world is what I'm saying. People walk in on people, stuff happens.

  • Trust me he doesn't mind seeing it at all. I'll admit it was kind of weird when a girl saw my dick for the first time, but nothing to be embarrassed about. At your age it really shouldn't be that big of a deal

    • We've only been dating 5 weeks though. ..

  • How did he see it?

    And it's no biggie

    • I was getting ready for class at my apartment and my roommate let him. He came in my room and saw

    • Well I'm sure he enjoyed it, don't worry about it

    • It doesn't matter if he enjoyed it -_-

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  • wtf? sis you are gonna have to get use to it. both of you are gonna see (not just see) each other's genitals on a daily basis

  • And what did your boyfriend say about your vagina?

  • Well, it isn't like he is unaware of you having one!

    • It doesn't fucking matter. We haven't been dating that long for him to see my vagina

    • I get it. But I would just chalk it up to being one of those awkward moments that happens to all of us. Really nothing to lose sleep over.

  • That's so cute. But remember, a vagina is a lovely sight to see.

  • That's something that men and women do. They look at each other's sex organs. They also touch them.

    Have you considered freaking out about it?

    • We've only known each other for 5 weeks so we're basically strangers. I don't show my privates to strangers

    • My sex organs were once uncovered in front of a female that I had known for 5 hours. What followed was very pleasurable for both of us.

    • Lol ok. Thank you

  • Why are you embarrassed? I very highly doubt your boyfriend took seeing your vagina in anyway but good.

    • Because he has only been my boyfriend for about 5 weeks

    • With my first few girlfriends I couldn't wait to catch a glimpse of what was in their pants. I assure you, he didn't mind

    • I'm sure he doesn't mind. The problem is, I do because he's basically a stranger

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