My boyfriend says that I don’t want him because I pushed him away during sex several times does he really think that?

He wasn’t being aggressive and he didn’t do anything wrong , we do anal sex but we agreed on losing my virginity with him ( vaginal sex ) but every time he gets near my pussy i push him away ( this happened 4 times ) he had been patient but now he says that i don’t want him and refuses to have sex with me unless it’s vaginal sex , does he really think that or he’s just saying that so i would do it? And why does he wants me to lose my virginity with him?
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Superb Opinion

  • Why do you keep pushing him away after you agreed to do it? I can understand why he would be a little put off. If you are not ready, just be honest and tell him and stop leading him on and then letting him down. I'm not saying you should do anything you're not comfortable with, but at the same time don't lead him on and then let him down. Tell him you not ready and manage his expectations.

    Personally, I would totally understand if you were honest about it and were OK with continuing to have anal sex. But every guy is different.

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  • It sounds like a tactic to pressure you so he can take your virginity as a trophy. If he's pushy like this with something so intimate and important to you it's probably a red flag of what he will be like in a long-term relationship.

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  • You already had experience with him as had anal sex him.

    You said you tried 4 times and pushed him away. What was the problem? Did you not feel ready yet? That's completely fine if that's the case

    I think he was waiting for you to be ready as said what he said because just annoyed at waiting.

    Commutation is really important. If your not ready just say if it's something else try to say and then you two can work through it together

  • Hmm he is right! What you are doing is mean that exactly! If you want him then why you are pushing him?

    • I guess am not ready and a little bit afraid it will hurt

    • Hmm don't you do roleplay? And do you love each other

    • We don’t do roleplay , he says that he loves me but he’s known for being a player , am not sure about my feelings towards him

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  • You lost your virginity already.