My boyfriend says that I have a flat booty and a black vag**. He said he likes his ex's boobs with pointed nipples. I felt bad what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Nawlins34]

You end the relationship.

What are you going to do with that information? If what he says is true, either it stays that way or if you make any changes, it'll be perceived as if you did it for him even if they were genuine.

He basically said he doesn't like you and has said described what the women he will be cheating on you with will look like.

So, he did you a favor, drop him and let him go find that.

[Losalt]

I'm glad to hear that you broke up with him.
You deserve better.
And whatever he said about you, well, there's guys that *prefer* that, so find one of those, instead of wasting your time and thoughts on someone who doesn't appreciate you for who you are.

[RoseySarah]

Break up with him!

He wants what he used to have and can't appreciate your amazing beauty!

My sister's husband is that way now he just goes and sleeps with any girl he wants after the divorce... Never a girl twice cause they hate him!

You should feel that way any women would! Your body sounds amazing 😍

[RoseySarah]

Glad you ended it no one should ever say they prefer their ex and still love you

[Sour-rose]

Drop him. N*gga really ain't liking what's in front of him and prefers his ex. Good thing about this situation is he's a boyfriend, not a soulmate.

[NotInterestedSorry]

Dump him.

[ImHere22]

Leave his ass. He's weird, judgmental, and body shaming you is not okay. Definite red flag- get out of that relationship immediately.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should find a new boyfriend. Any guy who tries to manipulate you by comparing you unfavorably to his ex is a Class A Asshole!

[Red_Arrow]

Hard to believe, but there are many guys that are asses. Glad you got rid of him. There is nothing wrong with your body.

[spartan55]

Again, where do you girls find these morons? Shitheads R Us?

[SnowedIn]

Dump him.

Anyone who is willing to put you down and compare you to his ex doesn't deserve you.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Replace him.

[Queen33]

Dump him.

He doesn’t respect you or care about your feelings. And he wouldn’t compare you to other women if he did

[Queen33]

Also.. He is putting you down which will lead you to have low self esteem, no confidence etc

[AMS700CX4u2]

If he is enjoying those features of yours he should not be critical of them. In my 55 years of adulthood I have discovered that people who are insecure think that by being critical of you they hold a position of superiority. Actually it does the opposite.

[slatyb]

Get a new boyfriend who likes what you have.

[Dargil]

Show him the door. Never undress for him again.

[ProbablyClueless]

Why are you still with this person?

[smilelots]

your boyfriend needs to be nicer too you and if not then find someone that will be.. you dont compare lady parts or man parts to your new partner you love then and cherish them no matter what.. if he doesn't like love show your lady parts all they deserve then move on if you ask me..

[Soldieronmission]

You should dump him! That's really mean and unthoughtful of him. Why would he date you if he doesn't like how you look? Don't give him your body anymore!

[zero444440000]

ehhh why is in pointing out that your booty is flat? "nothing wrong with that" and that your a vag** black? why is he talking about that he likes his ex's boobs? doesn't he like yours?

[Asker]

He doesn't talk like he likes mine more. He doesn't adore me in any way.

[zero444440000]

if he doesn't adore you in any way then why you with him?

[AMS700CX4u2]

I have at least a thousand autopsies on White and Black , Men and Women. I know that pigmentation can occur in tissue derived from skin where melanin is usually produced. Brain and eyes are derived from skin and so pigmentations can be found there. Certainly a vulva and external genitalia can be black. I know that a vagina is lined by squamous epithelium. But can it actually be black. I know that sex skins like foreskins, scrotums (sp) and labia have their own rules and that some can be contrasting to a persons natural pigmentation. I may be wrong and it would not surprise me if I were. But I don't think a vagina can be anything but pink.

[AMS700CX4u2]

The lower third of the vagina forms from Muellerian duct and bear no melanin.

[zero444440000]

@AMS700CX4u2 thank you for the ted talk.

[LavLavLuv]

Ew dump him

[Mangospacho]

Is there really any way he can salvage the relationship after that? He’s a total idiot

[Surely]

Tell him if he likes his ex so much better. Than go back to her and you find someone that will appreciate you just like you are.

[B4851]

He's a jerk and you should find someone else.

[B4851]

Good for you. You will find someone better.

[Asker]

Thank you so much 😊

[B4851]

You're very welcome.

[In_Trance]

Dump him

[Pterodon]

Tell him he won’t be seeing them anymore and dump his ungrateful ass

[MaSult]

Dump him, really. You are beautiful like you are

[abc--123]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

Maybe you need to find another boyfriend

[Anonymous]

Dump him ASAP

[Anonymous]

It’s Called A Vulva, Your Vagina Is On The Inside… Very Common For Women To Have A Dark Vulva… Who Cares If Your Ass Is Flat… Stop Censoring Words, We Are All Adults…

[Anonymous]

Stop dating stupid assholes.

[Anonymous]

He shouldn't mention his ex infront of you.

[Anonymous]

Dump his pathetic ass.

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome and best of luck to you.

[Asker]

Thank you so much 😊

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.