My boyfriend searched for images of teenage girls and he likes porn with young girls. How common is this and should I be grossed out?

[Hello4242]

Never underage. Just teenagers. And you know the porn vid titles..

[zeitgeist057]

I remember seeing a "porn searches by state" somewhere so I searched and found these infographics. I'm not sure all the validity of them, but it seems "teen" was one of the top choices in the 2013 results, but has since given way to other terms. In 2016, "Lesbian" was hot in a major way, and seems like "black" and related terms were prominent in 2022.

One article mentioned that , and I was curious so I went there to see if I could find a 2023 map. I didn't, but what I did discover is that what people search for is affected by events like holidays, or stuff like the Super Bowl. For example, during Super Bowl Sunday, there was an uptick in sports-themed related searches. All of a sudden, people want to masturbate to football team gang bangs, locker room sex, and cheerleader porn more.

On Mother's Day, you guessed it, an increase in "MILF" searches. I didn't see any Father's Day data, but you can imagine.

2013

2019, women's searches

So it looks like it just depends, some searches trend up or down, and at one point "teen" was up there, but it's trended down the past several years. Oh, and of course he's not looking at underage, that's illegal. Even if he wanted to, he couldn't find it legally on a porn site.

2022

[Anonymous]

The only guys that watch porn of any kind, are ones that have no idea how detrimental and sinful all porn is. Those women / people in porn have often been groomed from a young age, abused, damaged, trafficked and had all kinds of terrible things done to them. That is what you are watching when you view porn and that is why it opens the portal to sin in your life and shame. I do not watch it. Your boyfriend, regardless of what type of porn he watches, is supporting all of this filth, sin and terrible things being done to others.

[Hello4242]

I completely agree. He’s a Christian, too.

[Opinion Owner]

I would pray that he discovers the truth about porn and that he turns away from it forever. Society has convinced many men that it is harmless and / or normal. But it can result in demonic possession too. That's real too...

[Hello4242]

He says he’s not watching it anymore. But it’s something he struggles to stay stay away from. It’s bad knowing that’s something he struggles with. I don’t know what to do about it because I can’t control him.

[Opinion Owner]

That's why you pray. You don't need to control him. If you pray that he finds the truth, then knowing that, will keep him away from porn. You mentioned that he was Christian. If he is not consuming the Word daily, that is another reason for the temptation. Even just reading 5 minutes of healing scripture a day will make a huge difference.

[Hello4242]

Why do guys have to be religious just to comprehend porn is bad for you. I feel like it’s common sense yet it’s becomes such a part of our culture that it’s normal and guys that don’t watch it are weird. It’s awful that guys lack that much empathy and intelligence. That they don’t already have enough good in them to realize this without the need for religion.

[Opinion Owner]

Who is religious? Since porn has been designed to destroy men and women (John 10:10), both are targeted in different ways. When they get exposed to it at a young age then all of the 'common sense' may not matter. But if anyone takes in the Word, then it builds up their strength, common sense and wisdom and then they will notice more traps.

[Hello4242]

Hmm thank you very interesting.

[Hello4242]

What are the different ways it is targeted to destroy men and woman?

[Opinion Owner]

It has programming to encourage men to be homosexual and women to be lesbians. Some of it is subliminal and others just inherent in nature. Look closely at the behavior of men that watch porn and you might notice they exhibit different / questionable boundaries with other men.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Uggghhhh, you need to ween him off, it may affect your bedroom activity

[Hello4242]

Should i be worried he’s a pervert?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

When you can't focus on the one you're with, it seems off. He should direct his sexual desires at you.

[Apple1996]

That's a bad sign. Might be a pedo

[Nifrayu]

Pedos most likely would not be checking out legal age teens. Pedos by definition are attracted to young children. Even so I think this could be an unhealthy sign.

[Apple1996]

@Nifrayu if someone is specifically searching teens then they are covering the fact that they are a pedo and into childern. It's a loophole to being a creep

[Apple1996]

I would leave my man if he did that shit and keep him far far away from kids/teens

[Nifrayu]

That's not how that works.

[Apple1996]

@Nifrayu it really is tho. 18 is not a adult yet. Womens bodies aren't fully developed till they are 23. If a man older than that is into that then I personally think they are into kids

[Nifrayu]

It's true that they are not adults, but they are also not young children.

[Hello4242]

@Nifrayu just because legally 18 is considered an adult doesn’t mean they actually are. Woman don’t finish developing until their mid 20s, both their brain and bodies. It’s beyond messed up that we consider 18 to be adults, legally.

[Apple1996]

Yess I completely agree with this

[slatyb]

That's fairly common, and no, you shouldn't be anything. How do you feel about it? Maybe try wearing a school uniform for him?

[bowenw]

Everyone has different tastes. I wouldn't be too concerned as long as the actresses are of legal age, it isn't affecting your relationship with him, and he isn't addicted to porn.

[Alex-Snow]

Everyone has different turn ons. As long as they are over 18 I guess it does not matter

[Twalli]

We like it when girls look young

[Hello4242]

You boys who like that belong in prison. You guys are essentially brainwashed to like it because of its popularity in porn.

[Twalli]

I haven't been attracted to 9 year old Lindsay Lohan from Parent Trap since I was about 14. I still find 18 year woods attractive though, and I am sure mature looking underage girls. Despite what you seem to believe, most guys prefer to only see legal girls naked.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Fairly common and not unless you start see other red flags

[Bklynbadboy12]

How old is your boyfriend if he's over 30 be careful

[Hello4242]

He’s 26

[Bklynbadboy12]

Oh that's not bad

[eagle1951]

he's a horny fuck

[Hello4242]

He keeps insisting that he does it to relive stress and he can just ignore it if he’s horny. Are most guys into watching those king of porn vids or should i be concerned?

[eagle1951]

have you caught him jacking off

[Hello4242]

No just saw what he searches for

[eagle1951]

i'm betting he beats his meat

[Anonymous]

He sounds creepy 😳

[Anonymous]

i like looking at chick's boobs etc, Dont care what age they are, You can't legislate that out of men

[wandamx]

Message me please.

[Opinion Owner]

@wandamx huh? why? so you can bore me with your dreary thoughts? thankyou no

[wandamx]

Actually I was hoping to critique your tiny penis. You have a bit of a rep on here.

[Opinion Owner]

@wandamx its not tiny or even small. I heard the term micropenis used one one of my shows. It amused me and i wanted to use it myself

[Opinion Owner]

@wandamx although between you and me, some weirdo messaged me his thanks that id told the world. that he also had a micropenis. And then started asking to be treated like a faggot or some such

[Anonymous]

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