My boyfriend sends me nudes and artistic pictures of other girls in instagram and tumblr or even porn, is it a natural habit in relationships?

At first we were best friends and then we started dating so I thought maybe that is the main reason for him to share his interests with me. but I'm a little insecure person and sometimes I get really mad because in my point of view I think he is comparing me to those girls and I don't really like to see him admiring other girls body. although I really like to be close to him and even do some dirty things together but I don't know what is the best solution? PLEASE SHARE YOUR OPINION WITH ME I NEED HELP!
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  • This is certainly not normal in most relationships, although I have met couples who do this and have healthy relationships. The important thing is communication, he's being open with you about how feelings and interests give him the same respect and tell him this makes you feel. If he doesn't listen to you on this I would consider that a red flag.

  • Well thankfully it most certainly isn't natural within my marriage.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Boundaries need to be defined in every relationship. Speak up and tell him what you find acceptable and unacceptable.

  • Whether it's "natural" or not is irrelevant. He thinks girls other than you are hot, duh. THAT is natural.

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  • He wishes you were bisexual

  • You should tell him jow you feel. If he loves you he will change his habits for you

  • Of you don't like it tell him. If it carries on when you have asked him to stop. Get rid of him because he is not respecting you

  • sometimes it is. Every relationship is a little different

  • Talk to him, he should listen.

  • If it bothers you then tell him. Communication is the key to a long lasting relationship.

  • He like to share everything with u