My boyfriend stares at me when I'm naked but never compliments my body?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes after my boyfriend and I are done having sex, I'll sometimes get up to stretch my legs while still naked. Whenever I do this, I'll look back at him and he'll just be sitting on the bed staring at me as I walk around. I can't tell whether he's just "enjoying the view" or is picking apart my body and criticizing it in his head now that the "heat of the moment" has passed. He never compliments my body otherwise, which is what makes me think he might be judging me. Guys: Do you scrutinize a girl's flaws when she's naked? Would you tell your girlfriend if you disliked something about her body?

[WalterBlack]

I can think of a few reasons why he doesn't compliment your body. If he's introverted, hey may have a habit of keeping his thoughts to himself, even when it may be appropriate to say it out loud. He may believe that modern women want to be complimented on their mind, not their body (thanks a lot third wave feminists). It is also possible that he doesn't know exactly what to say and he doesn't want to end up sounding like a perv.

[Markm3212]

i would say that he likes your body and is just admiring the view. he is probably still realing from the extacy of having sex and just thinking to himself how lucky he is. i wouldn't read to much into it. if he didn't liek your body he wouldn't be stairing lol

[Anonymous]

He is not judging you. He likes your body, he just doesn't consider it necessary to comment on it

[ShayBail]

Yikessss I'd ask him for his opinion. My last guy was like that and I couldn't stand it.

[CarpX]

Most likely he's just enjoying the view. He may notice a flaw, but mostly he's thinking about the next time he can "get back in there!" (Yes, we're already thinking about doing it again that quickly.)

[Criptic]

No I enjoy the view too. He obviously likes you too bad he never tells you.

[Red_Arrow]

I would not pick apart the body of someone I just slept with. But I would admire it! So he is probably just enjoying looking at it when he can do so while not so close that he cannot enjoy the visual.

[MarkGerrits]

simply ask him what he's thinking. when you do that keep an eye on him. if he starts to blush ull know enough :).

[dionyxes]

no he's probably just deep in thought about sex because you know he just had sex and 90% of guys arnt going to judge a girl after she just slept with him most likely he is thinking why did she sleep with me of all people

[Asknick]

Could be either, prob bit of both, he's sleeping with you so he must like what he sees for the most part, no one's body is perfect

[upskirtfetish]

has anything changed, since you two got together?

[LastNightmare]

wow, he lust for your body a lot

[Ery_K]

in my opinion, we should be able to say our ideas without making sad each other

[masterkamasutra]

he is too boring.

[chuy10]

he's admiring the view

[Vikranth_Rachakonda]

better you should learn a great role play before sex..