My boyfriend tends to reject me when I am the one initiating sex. Is this a red flag? What should I do?

He is usually the one initiating sex and I usually agree and I don’t reject him. However, I have noticed that when I am the one trying to initiate sex, he rejects me most of the times saying he is not in the mood right now. I know it’s nothing personal and maybe he is just not in the mood but I cannot avoid feeling rejected and sad and I don’t want to end up in a situation where we only have sex when he wants. Why does he do that? Is that behavior normal or is it a red flag? What do I do?

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  • ok allow me to first ask a few questions and if you respond with answers I can give you more than the general answer i will provide in this post. Now before you decide to initiate sex do you first read the room and kinda gage his mood or vibe? I only ask because the handful of times where women have brought this kinda situations to me about their husbands/ boyfriends I found that they didn't check to see if he was in a mood that would encourage sex. The second question I have is are you a nympho? I ask because I was in a relationship with a very sexy nympho before who could never get enough sex. we could literally finish fucking for 3 hours and within 15 min she would try to initiate sex again as if the last 3 hours of fucking never happened. She thought that something was off because I would turn her down too often according to her but I did it because I knew I needed to recuperate and do some work or take care of some priority. but it had nothing to do with not wanting to fuck her every time she asked for it but I need some time to do other things lol

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  • Narcicistic traits.

    Same happened to me with my LD ex. For real, I couldn't figure out what was happening. Up to now I can't say for sure what the hell happened. It just blowed my mind to know it was a "problem" to have intimacy.

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  • It's something you should discuss with him. He may be masturbating a lot and not in the mood when you try to initiate it.

  • Basically, guys are so moody when it comes to have sex. we LOVE asking for sex, and not being asked. We don't like easy woman, so we want to begin the woman to have sex. Also, if we see an attractive sexy woman, in a party for instance, we masturbating that night thinking of her, and can't do sex that night with our partner. Men's brain complicated when it comes to sex.

  • That’s mean