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Sexual Health My boyfriend told me he doesn't like my stomach, and the fact that I squirt. What should I do?
mmmadison Xper 3
So, my boyfriend recently told me he wished my stomach was smaller. Now, I just overcame depression and an eating disorder last year, which my boyfriend knows about. I also told him about the fact that I squirt, as we were talking about sex. We haven't had it yet. I just really don't know what I should say to him. I'm also not a huge girl, and I just recently started to like my body a lot. I have F cup boobs, a nice Italian butt, some nice thighs and curves, and I'm 5'0". My stomach has a little fat to it, but that's to be expected with a curvy body type. It's just upsetting to hear him talk about my problem areas when I JUST began to love myself. So, what do you guys think I should do? Is it normal for guys to be grossed out by squirting? Should I talk to him about this, or am I overreacting? Thanks.
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When I was talking to him about the squirting, I mentioned we could just lay towels or something down when we had sex. He told me I could just hold my orgasms in. I then told him that if I had to hold mine in, he should have to do it as well. He doesn't see it, and tells me I'm "being dramatic." Am I?
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 21What an ASS
Ha ha you are just looking for attention on here and fishing for compliments
I apologize you feel that way. I told my body type because I wanted opinions on if I should be worried about my body. Sorry that my life isn't a fairytale, and I actually wanted answers.
By the way, what fucking compliments would I get on here? "Oh, your boyfriend sucks, good job!" Compliments also don't mean anything to me if I don't know the person saying them, so I wouldn't be fishing for them online.
I'm not to sure but I have a eating disorder too and I still have it but if he loves u he will put the bad things aside and just see you as a gorgeous girl that loves him he shouldn't care about a bit of fat hope it works out for u and him
You should break up, i am not being rude but i don't see any future for you, as you portrayed him.
You sound like you have a hot body
Fuck him
Be with someone that appreciates you. I wish my girlfriend could squirt. You need to be with someone that loves you for you and everything about yourself. Other than that you're just wasting your time
Oh my gosh. Grow a pair. If you want to love yourself get a hold of yourself.
Was this.. directed to me? Sorry, but I posted this to get actual answers, not to be criticized. I was asking if I was overreacting, not asking on how to love myself.
I think my comment made perfect sense. Whether you take it as advice or criticism is purely a direction of your own intent.
It really doesn't make any sense. You never made it clear as to what I should say or do to my boyfriend.
Why do you call him your boyfriend? (Rhetorical). its kinda of a recipe for disaster to hang out with someone who doesn't like you or make you happy.
That's exactly why I asked what I should do.
I can't believe it. Think for yourself.
I gave you all the info you need for you to make the next move.
tell him you don't like his penis size, and that you could do much better than him
More guys think squirting is awesome then don't like it.
What a total retard... just keep doing what your doing and love your body gurl!
What's "squirting"?
Hahahahhhaa someone needs sex Ed !!
@singlebee I don't know either, but I think I get the idea...
@SuperNovaRoyalty you will know when you know... Now your are small to understand that ! :-)
Thanks, very helpful answers. -_-
@singlebee Well, funny thing actually. This term in Science class, we will be looking at this stuff. By the end of the year, I will be as informed (I think) as you are! lol XD
@SuperNovaRoyalty At thirteen years old? Wow, that's young! @singlebee, how old did you think I was anyway? I'm sixteen...
@anonymous Well sure it's a bit young, but the fact that YOU don't know as a 16 yr old when most 16y-o's may have copulated before implies that teaching these things at a younger age will make sure that no-one is ignorant to the facts of copulation. Lol I'm actually interested to see how this plays out at school, though: "Okay class, please label this diagram for me, I have drawn it on the board" hahahahah
@SuperNovaRoyalty That's a bit young to copulate. -_-
-_- I know..
(Guys how do you mute a post I've decided I don't want to know after all and I don't want to be sent back here by a notification that I'll catch a glimpse of and never forget.)
You squirt, thats awesome
Wish You were my girl
I would enjoy you everyday:)