My boyfriend told me he had sex with my mom should I belive him? my mom married and doesn't speak English boyfriend black ane speaks no Spanish?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If he did have sex with your mom, do you still want him as a boyfriend?

If he didn't have sex with your mom and he lied about this to cause you problems, do you still want him as a boyfriend?

The only possible way of knowing if your boyfriend is telling the trust is to ask him when and where it happened. Maybe he says he stopped by your house on a certain day when your mom was the only one at home, but she actually wasn't home that day. Busted. Or maybe he stalls and avoids answering the question. Sounds like a lie to me.

If you learn, by any means, that your mother did have sex with your boyfriend, then that permanently changes your relationship with her, and it changes things for your parents if they are still married.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I would walk away from him so fast he's nothing but a troublemaker he's going to be nothing but trouble in your life

That's just pretend that he did I would walk even faster away from him because he opened his mouth because he made your mom look like somebody that she's not he's using your mama's manipulation to get with you what he wants from you f*** him walk away he's nothing but trouble I'm telling you if you do not walk away you're going to be in a world of hurt one day with this guy do it now because even after you walk away he's going to try to manipulate you even more to get even more from you it's going to be a battle get the battle started right now and get the f*** out of there he's a piece of s***

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Believe him and talk with your mom about why!  Sounds like your dad is not treating her to what she needs. Can you even look at your mom the same? Like it was inside where you came from?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why would he lie about it? You can have sex with someone who doesn’t speech the same language because our bodies all talk the same so words are less important.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Outstanding! Good for your boyfriend!

slatyb · Answer

Can you just ask your mother? That seems highly unlikely. Either way you should dump him.

MementoMori777 · Answer

damn that sucks

Avicenna · Answer

A guy who would, or even lie about it, should be dumped instantly

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Why would he tell you that? It dosent achieve anything other than ending your relationship. You could ask your mum

RavVid · Answer

I think you should check with your mom. If this was after he became your boyfriend it is a bit Jerry Springer and doubly bad on your mom's side.

bowenw · Answer

Did you ask your mom about it?

Ben487 · Answer

It's definitely a possibility. I would believe it.

Staximus · Answer

Whether he did or not, he's a piece of shit. He obviously wants you out if his life or to test you and see how much bullshit you will tolerate. Leave that scumbag already, what the fuck is wrong with you? Is that how you want to be treated?