My boyfriend told me he is raped when he was a child?

He told me this And I shouldn't tell it anyone but this secret hurts me a lot and I just guess this and I also raped by girl when I was little... But the things hurts me very much rn I don't wanna leave him But I feel like that something bothers me :(

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I Just feel sad about him When girls raped each others girl to girl nothing happens really.. But what happens after boys rape each other?
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The thing which is bothering me was his emotionaly feeling sad about it That thing makes me tearful yn
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Superb Opinion

  • So you wanna break up because he was sharing how hurt he was? Wow you should be ashamed

    • Noooooooooo99 helll nooooo.. I just need to know how can I treat him from now on

    • Oh asker I’m sorry I misunderstood. I think with love and kindness. Don't try to push him to talk about something he isn’t ready for. But be a safe ear to tell things too. He needs professional help as well like a therapist. Give him a lot of hugs and comfort and kisses. Also, let him cry on you. A lot of men find it hard to cry in front of a woman. Be loving and comforting and nurturing towards him. He trusts you to be vulnerable. Telling you his story and everything. Crying isn’t the only way to be vulnerable but it’s one way

    • I do apologize for misunderstanding. Some people legitimately say stuff like that on here

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Most Helpful Guy

  • That is past, you both should forget,, why you are worried, not your issue?

    • Yes😁🙌🏼 thanks

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why leave

    • I don't wanna leave What you mean? I Just feel sad about him Does it different when girls raped each other nothing happens but boys raped boys does something changes?

    • Everything is bad

  • Wait, a girl raped a girl?

    • Yes.. It can not be?

    • I mean I guess

  • Why you leaked his secret here

    • Cuz I don't have anyone to talk about yn I promised to him that But this information hurts me a lot I want to talk about him more he doesn't want to and I need to talk about it with someone

    • It's ok

  • You want to leave him after what he told you?

    • No never But I just start to think what is we are not gonna be same as before :( What if he always was gay and not care of the girls?

    • What if he also thought the same? It's just your overthinking. He also had a past, you also had a past. Just left the reality on time. Rn, you need to spend more time with him. More time you spend with him, more you will get to know about him. That should be the right way to know him rather than just left someone on the base of some random thoughts and than regret for the life.

    • Thank you I know That make me feel better 🥺💗

  • Bro when you're not happy mentally move on...
    We deserve peace...

    • Did you also raped by boy when you were child?

    • Nah but i get sexual harrasment by my teacher when I was 14 n she is 23 i guess

    • Can you tell me about it pls

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  • Why can't you both help each other?

    • You maybe right yes , how?

    • By being there for each other and getting counseling both of you, you can both recover and help each other through the bad of the past.

    • But he said he never even told this anyone.. Its hurts :( he is still needs to tell one of his family

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