My boyfriend told me he is raped when he was a child?

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He told me this And I shouldn't tell it anyone but this secret hurts me a lot and I just guess this and I also raped by girl when I was little... But the things hurts me very much rn I don't wanna leave him But I feel like that something bothers me :(

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I Just feel sad about him When girls raped each others girl to girl nothing happens really.. But what happens after boys rape each other?

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The thing which is bothering me was his emotionaly feeling sad about it That thing makes me tearful yn

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Anonymous
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So you wanna break up because he was sharing how hurt he was? Wow you should be ashamed
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- Asker
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  Noooooooooo99 helll nooooo.. I just need to know how can I treat him from now on
- Opinion Owner
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  Oh asker I’m sorry I misunderstood. I think with love and kindness. Don't try to push him to talk about something he isn’t ready for. But be a safe ear to tell things too. He needs professional help as well like a therapist. Give him a lot of hugs and comfort and kisses. Also, let him cry on you. A lot of men find it hard to cry in front of a woman. Be loving and comforting and nurturing towards him. He trusts you to be vulnerable. Telling you his story and everything. Crying isn’t the only way to be vulnerable but it’s one way
- Opinion Owner
  25 d
  I do apologize for misunderstanding. Some people legitimately say stuff like that on here
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- Opinion Owner
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  Just remember if he told you and nobody else. He trusts you. He loves you. Don’t do anything to ruin that. Never intentionally hurt someone whose been good to you.
- Asker
  23 d
  🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 it was that advice i need to brother Thanks so much
- Asker
  23 d
  But sometimes I can not stop to think that he wants to kimd of relationship bc generally sharss gay memes lol.. Its hurts ngl But he is not hurts me.. these are just memes But :(((
- Opinion Owner
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  Your welcome wish you the best
- Opinion Owner
  23 d
  Oh okay. I don’t know. You’ll have to talk to him. But remember he also needs professional help
- Asker
  23 d
  Ik.. But he reject it. And he doesn't want to talk with this to his family and thats why its hurts him too much.. I wish he could :(
- Opinion Owner
  23 d
  Well if he rejected you. It hurts. Let yourself grieve. Be there as a friend but I think it’s time to move on
- Opinion Owner
  23 d
  Yeah. But if someone rejects you. It doesn’t matter the reason. You just gotta let them go. If they want you. They’ll make a effort after you made a move
- Asker
  23 d
  No He reject to therapy yn.. He still says he loves me however his messages a bit cold
- Opinion Owner
  23 d
  Oh okay sorry yes I see you’re in a relationship. Sorry sometimes I mix stuff up. Look you can’t force him. But be there for him and try to talk him into it maybe

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Cheerfull009 Xper 6
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That is past, you both should forget,, why you are worried, not your issue?
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- Asker
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  Yes😁🙌🏼 thanks

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Iron_Man Master
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Why leave
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- Asker
  25 d
  I don't wanna leave What you mean? I Just feel sad about him Does it different when girls raped each other nothing happens but boys raped boys does something changes?
- Iron_Man
  25 d
  Everything is bad
mommymommymommy Xper 6
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Wait, a girl raped a girl?
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- Asker
  25 d
  Yes.. It can not be?
- mommymommymommy
  25 d
  I mean I guess
Hell_boy Xper 5
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You want to leave him after what he told you?
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- Asker
  25 d
  No never But I just start to think what is we are not gonna be same as before :( What if he always was gay and not care of the girls?
- Hell_boy
  25 d
  What if he also thought the same? It's just your overthinking. He also had a past, you also had a past. Just left the reality on time. Rn, you need to spend more time with him. More time you spend with him, more you will get to know about him. That should be the right way to know him rather than just left someone on the base of some random thoughts and than regret for the life.
- Asker
  25 d
  Thank you I know That make me feel better 🥺💗
Awantika03 Xper 5
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Why you leaked his secret here
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- Asker
  25 d
  Cuz I don't have anyone to talk about yn I promised to him that But this information hurts me a lot I want to talk about him more he doesn't want to and I need to talk about it with someone
- Awantika03
  25 d
  It's ok
bros26 Xper 4
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Bro when you're not happy mentally move on...
We deserve peace...
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- Asker
  25 d
  Did you also raped by boy when you were child?
- bros26
  25 d
  Nah but i get sexual harrasment by my teacher when I was 14 n she is 23 i guess
- Asker
  25 d
  Can you tell me about it pls
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- bros26
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  Sure pm me
- Asker
  23 d
  I can't but you can text me
Anonymous
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Why can't you both help each other?
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- Asker
  25 d
  You maybe right yes , how?
- Opinion Owner
  25 d
  By being there for each other and getting counseling both of you, you can both recover and help each other through the bad of the past.
- Asker
  25 d
  But he said he never even told this anyone.. Its hurts :( he is still needs to tell one of his family
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- Opinion Owner
  25 d
  He doesn't have to tell his family, but he does need to get counseling, you too, so you can be better and feel better. He told you, means he trusts you.
- Asker
  25 d
  ❤️I am so happy he does I know I love him so much. I alsi told my story to him today.. I am just so happy to tell this someone without telling information about us.. Thanks