My boyfriend told me to suck his d... In front of his friends. I feel disgusted. What should I do?

a few nights ago my boyfriend and his friend came home, his friend lives with him and they both work at the same place. After having a few drinks then coming home, i was working on a project. He walked in yelling at me, acting excited to see me. Then he stood for a few minutes, being a smart mouth and he said to me in front of his friend "suck my penis". I felt disgusted, due to his friend being in the room when he said it, i sat there feeling embarrassed, he kept asking me to. After saying "eww" and ignoring him. I eventually told me how it made me feel, that i felt embarrassed and disgusted, cause his friend was there. He said "oh for fs sake, get over it. It was a fing joke". What should i do? Should i just dump him? I feel like he has no respect for me anymore. He is really childish and i hate childish immature people
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  • Everything you do not like, do not do it.

  • That was a very bad thing to do. I would be really mad at him and demand an explanation.

    • I asked him why he did it and he said "it was a joke and we both laughed at it". I asked him how it would make him feel if i said this in front of my friends like said "lick my..." Then laughed about it, he reckons he would laugh too. But the problem is he never laughs at anything and why he laughed at this "joke" has me baffled. I told him how disgusting and disrespectful it was and i dont like having sexual and personal things said like that around anyone and thats when the "get the f over it" happened. After saying something to him about not getting over it and why he would even say that, he denied it. I still have the messages i sent to him about how i felt about the situation. Sadly, when stuff like this happens, he denies it 😪

    • Spend your life with him in denial or search elsewhere.

  • You should do as you're told and suck his dick in front of his friends.

  • i think you need to give him crap.
    if he is so immature maybe even break up with him

  • I think he wants you to have a threesome

    • Eww... No, mnever had one, never will 😷😷

  • don't do it and break up he is a jerk

  • you've answered your own question find you someone else that will respect you

  • broke up with him

  • Lose him

  • if you're that bothered and can't forgive it, then yeah.

  • Some people are comfortable with sexual activity in front of others. It appears you are not. You did try to talk to him about it and he didn't validate your feelings. I will say never stay with someone you feel unhappy with or disrespected by.

  • Dump him if your not happy. I personally would as he clearly has no regard for you or respect to do that in front of his friend...