My boyfriend took forever to come?

I spent 45 minutes trying to make my boyfriend come by giving him a handjob last night. Haha my arm was so sore! Why did it take him so long? He never takes that long. I felt bad like I did something wrong but he insisted that I didn't
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When he did come though he came the most I've ever seen
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The key is to keep your hand and arm relaxed wrap your hand around it just barely touching the tips of your thumb and index finger (use baby oil if necessary). Let your hand glide up and down the shaft but stay very close to the head and tip and go as as fast as you can. He should blast off like a rocket keep going until he has no more semen and continue until he begs you to stop because it tickles.

  • Some times it happens, a million things can affect it. Tiredness, time since last orgasm, stress levels, diet, hydration levels... phases of the moon, his star sign, whether a black cat crossed his path during the day... ok those last ones probably not but still, whatever it was, it wasn't you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm not sure, maybe he masturbated earlier that day or even the night before, sometimes when they do like a routine it can take longer for them to cum.

  • There is an obvious answer. He had recently been with someone or masturbated very recently. Time to orgasm increases with men and decreases with women

  • Does this happen a lot or does he usually cum within 5 to 15 minutes?

    • Usually 10 or so

    • He was probably just off his game... see if it happens again. Maybe as somebody below suggested rubbed himself off.

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  • Maybe he had already made the bald man puke a few times earlier in the day.

  • Loads of guys take ages to blow from a handjob

    Keep in mind, most men have spent years giving themselves 1000s of handjobs.
    There is no way you are ever going to be as good at giving a guy a handjob then that guy giving himself one.

    Codons for the effort though!

  • I'm sure he must've been happy for those 45 minutes :p Thought girls want guys to cum late :p

  • Well handjobs usually aren't the most stimulating things. Maybe he whacked it earlier in the day.

  • Maybe because it was a hand job? Why wouldn't you switch to sex or a bj if it was taking that long?

  • If you build it he will cum hard lol. Been there.

  • Sometimes it happens. Rarely but it does happen :P

  • He might have something on his mind. Something bothering him

  • wasn't horny props

  • If he is like my hubby i"m sure it's not necessarily you. He is used to his own hand!

  • because you didn't know how to do it? what do you think penises are? rods that you wank up and down or in chaotic manners? they are delicate sex organs that need mastery to be handled.

  • That should be a good sign. It means he can go all night with you and make you orgasm more than once.

  • Coz handjobs are shit. You need to make sure your hands are as wet as can be otherwise its more painful therefore less exciting