My boyfriend tried to fuck my ass?

So we were having sex and I decided to turn over so we can do it doggystyle. He goes to put it in and it goes to the wrong hole... happens all the time. So I tell him, he continues to try to shove it in. I then scream at him, and he reaches around to cover my mouth with his hand and keeps trying to shove it in... I'm clenching my ass pretty hard at this point so he doesn't make it in and I finally get him off me. He then starts laughing and saying it was all a joke. I haven't spoken to him in 4 days because of this. What do I do next?
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  • First off... maybe if you un-clench... maybe
    Secondly... i call that an invasion of privacy... you sound like you would go with it but he still needs your permission to invade that space..
    It IS kinda kinky that did all that but it ain't right...
    Next time... put a finger up his ass.. n see how He likes being invaded without permission. :)

  • You do what you want. We cannot give you answers. If you feel you were assaulted and want to charge him, then go to the police. If you want to seek professional counseling, then do that. If want to simply break up, then do that. If you want to yell and scream at him, then do that.

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  • SEXUAL ASSAULT, ALMOST RAPE. and he thinks its funny. what you do is YOU DUMP HIM AND NEVER LOOK BACK. oh and be sure to let EVERYONE know he can not be trusted. women need to be warned. you dont want him to succeed ion the next one.

    • @happens all the time? why are you still with him?

  • Take a cucumber, pull his pants down and try to shove it in his ass.

    He sounds very disrespectful, I would talk to him about this. Being silent won't get you anywhere, talk it out.

  • And you are still with this jerk? That's just stupid on your part.

    • way to shame her.

    • @cross98 you think this is real? No one can be this stupid

    • It is real...

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  • Wait to hear if he's remorseful or just stay silent on him.

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  • Asshole. (No pun intended)
    Tell him it's really not okay what he did and it lingers on the edge of rape. Next time, he should ask for your consent before trying anything.

  • Reset the clock and tell him he needs to re-earn your trust. (You will probably break up with him very soon.)

  • Wow what an asshole.(Lol puns) dump this guy, he seriously could of hurt you. That shit (pun not intended) is not funny if I want to have anal sex with a girl. I ask/beg and slowly work up to penetration with fingers lube and such. Or as my wife screamed at me "put it in my ass" The first time we had sex to which I had her ask twice. Anal sex is hot and fun but he has no right to force/rape you for it. Want me to fuck him up he won't see me coming.

  • You know it wasn't a joke. He was trying very hard to get it against your wishes. What you do next is dump his ass and move on.

  • what do YOU WANT to do next? That's really all that matters.

  • Lol that actually sounds kind of hot in the way that you describe it.

    • I knew someone would say that

    • Aha I'm sorry if you are distraught. I'm not even trying to troll or piss you off in anyway by asking this but.. Even though you are pissed.. did it sort of turn you on knowing that he just took control over like that?

    • No. it didn't

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  • Well if your boyfriend wanted to have enjoyable anal sex with you he totally went about it the wrong way. He didn't respect your boundaries and didn't have your consent to try anal. And even if he did have your consent, you can't just ram your dick up there without preparation that allows the girl to relax and for her anus to be ready. So a massive fail on his part.

  • Instead of showing him where to put it, just show him where the door is.

  • If you don't want it you don't have to do it that way. Tell him to fuck off.

  • Dump his ass.

  • LOL that's hilarious! What a guy.

    • Seriously? It hurt like hell and I'm scared of him now

    • Still pretty funny.

    • Well someone's a giant dick.

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  • You end things. He violated your tust and continue to do it. He doesn't love you cuz if he did he would of thought of you firstly and asked before you even had sex. Your relationship won't ever be the same and you won't ever be comfortable. End it now and try to find someone that cares about you.

  • Break up. He tried to force his dick in your ass while he covered your mouth. That's fucked up.

    Or if you're the forgiving type tell him you aren't interested in anal.

  • You clearly liked it.

    No girl screams if they don't like it. Did you scream he's name?

    • I screamed for him to stop you idiot.

    • Well you do know you can't say no in a joke. Did you use the safe word?

    • We don't have one. We don't need one.

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  • That's called attempted ass rape.

  • How long have you been dating?

    • 3 years

    • How many times has he done that?

    • Once

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  • I'm surprised you didn't bite off his dick lol

    • It wasn't in my mouth...

  • He was right.

  • That is absolutely unacceptable. There is no excuse, its time to find a better man, every women deserves basic respect.

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