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My boyfriend tried to video record me giving him head without my knowledge, Am I overreacting over this?

So while I was giving him head he took up my phone and started to video me without my consent. Then when I tried to take the phone he resisted but he deleted the video. He said that I'm overreacting and no one will see it because it's on my phone. That same day he tried to go anal on me and that is one of my sexual boundaries which he knows about ( but I'd try it for him). He didn't even asked for anal he just went and I was in pain so he stopped. After I finished him off during the blowjob. I angrily went home. He's ignoring me for two weeks now so we haven't got a chance to talk about it. Am I overreacting? Or He's just being disrespectful?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Not really sure how you reacted so it’s hard to say you overreacted. Taking a video on your phone is a lot better than on his. At least you can control who sees it. As for the anal, that’s not cool that just stick it in but at least he stopped. He’s ignoring you? Meaning you’ve called or texted and he’s not responding?

    • My text messages I don't call him because I know he won't pick but he just reads my text and not reply

    • That’s rude.

  • I don't feel like you're overreacting. Those are two serious lines he crossed which means he obviously has issues with boundaries. And the fact that he's been ignoring you as if you did something wrong also speaks volumes about his level of maturity.

  • HE'S ignoring YOU? Wtf. Should be other way round. He's a disrespectful dick. What normal guy thinks it's normal to video a woman in a sex act when she didn't agree? Wow. What an ass.

  • Nope, he's prob gonna show his guy friends, and they'll masturbate while watching it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He is an idiot. You don't film sex without permission! You just won't stick penis straight to anal even if consent! I wonder what he would think if you suddenly shoved something to his ass.

    You are not overreacting, your boyfriend is just selfish idiot.

  • I'd certainly consider him to be at fault there. I mean the video thing might have been him trying to be playful and try something new, but the anal thing especially when he knew it was an issue for you was certainly a dick move by him, no pun intended.

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  • You're not overreacting. He needs to respect your boundaries.

  • You are not overreacting. You have a right to your privacy and he didn't respect that.

  • He doesn't care about your physical autonomy. This behavior isn't going to stop. Break up with him.

  • He's a douche

  • Yup... time to take a break
    If you don't you are implying all that is ok

    Your choice

    • Thanks for your option, but what take a break from the relationship?

    • Well he obviously isn't respecting you or the relationship This is the perfect storm to a shitty relationship then you are going to adopt bad habits and take all that into your next relationship Then you'll blame it on the boys that all boys are jerks so now you'll have super uber major rock hard walls up with guys Ya lol... that's why

    • Well my walls were already sky high before I met him and yes it's disrespectful but I haven't had the chance to talk about it and that's what's bothering me.

  • He's being disrespectful , weird too.

  • No. He’s being disrespectful

  • You are not overreacting.
    He doesn't respect you.

  • if you don't want to break up with him , next time take a dildo and shove it up his as whyle also recording with your phone.. see if he likes it

    • 😂😂 lol I love this comment

  • He sounds like a total asshole. The video recording is totally out of order - no decent guy would do that. And the surprise anal is even worse. Couples should always talk about what they want from sex and the whole experience is supposed to be mutually enjoyable. He sounds like it's all about him, he's probably very immature and probably watches too much porn. He should grow up.

  • No you aren't over reacting you deserve someone who will ask you and respe t your barriers

  • You're overreacting. You should be trying to please him in any way possible

    • I will do so even anal sex but I guess he did that because he know that I'd do anything to please him but that's doesn't give him the right to do so it's also my body he could speak to me about this first.

  • He is disrespecting you cuz you didn't give permission and he did it without your notice so you were not overreacting.

  • Random and unhelpful but I love that you finished him before storming off lol

  • Leave him. He was out of line.

  • This guy doesn't respect you

  • 2 weeks he obviously doesn't care about you if he only cares about getting off and not respecting you

  • no you're not overreacting. You should better leave him.

  • You're overreacting

  • id say kick his ass out

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